I Am Trying to 'figure Out' My Bisexuality

I'm still trying to figure everything out, I've been more attracted to females than males. Every relationship I've had with a male has either never worked out or there hasn't been any kind of spark.
Just makes me wonder...

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sysper

so how many females have u been in a relationship with & what kinda problems have u experianced with them u haven't experianced with males? it could just be u have been meeting the wrong guys. maybe u should be open to a relationship with a female if u haven't done so. just remember the gender is only 1 thing about a person, alot will depend on the personality too.

Writersblock · 26-30, F

I just generally don't find males as attractive, sorry I wasn't as specific as I should have been >.<
I've been with a girl before, and it seemed so much different than with a guy, in a good way

sysper

lol that's ok it's clear now. so what ru wondering about, sounds like ur pretty sure u prefer girls. so go with it.

OfSweetestNothings

Interesting sexuality does come about and develop as you continue to interact with people more. It's like interests, depending on our experiences we do change over time about the things we like and don't.

Writersblock · 26-30, F

That actually makes a lot of sense, I suppose we all just wait for what the future holds :)

OfSweetestNothings

I'm glad that I could help!

outlier0

Needs and desires change over time in my experience. There's not a ton of understanding of bi people out there. It's very confusing to be bi. Gender is a huge thing but it's not everything. Finding people who really resonate with you and make you feel fulfilled is very important.

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