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An image keeps haunting me

Yesterday on the way home from work, I saw a homeless woman standing under the overpass. She was like a living skeleton. She was hugging a giant jug of water and swaying as though dancing with it. Her face looked so drawn and gaunt, it was like a skull covered in leather. She was moving her toothless jaw left and right, obviously drug withdraw related.

I just felt so horrified and sad at the same time. This woman is someone's daughter, mother, or sister. She was a baby once, a child. I found myself wondering what her life used to be like before the drugs. 😔

I can't get it out of my mind.
ChiefJustWalks · 26-30
I always look at homeless people as someone who used to be somebody before. They had a life like us.. they had family. The other day I gave a homeless guy a few dollars I had on me & in my head I thought "maybe he'll buy drugs, maybe he'll buy a beer, that's up to him but maybe he'll actually use it for something to eat or drink. It's hot out here"

Then before I was done putting gas I saw him walk out the store with a jug of water. It honestly made me happy to know he spent it on something he needed
atlantic59 · 61-69, M
@ChiefJustWalks and maybe a lottery ticket that turns out to be a huge winner. And then he's helping a bunch of others....hopefully...
RebelFox · 36-40, F
In my van travels I spent a lot of time with homeless people. They are survivors but society kicked them out for whatever mental/emotional reason. Lots of veterans. So they have to make it through alone, knowing nobody has their back. They live on mercy of which there’s little in peoples hearts anymore. It makes you crazy, or possibly more sane if you think about how fked the system is.
ChiefJustWalks · 26-30
@RebelFox my grandpa was a veteran. I only met him as a baby. He disappeared after that. Then in 2012 he was found dead on a sidewalk. Turns out he'd been homeless for years & he drank himself to death. I didn't get to know him but I've heard everybody speak so highly about him & he's so cool in my mind. It really changed how I look at homeless people. My mom too. So her & I have met so many homeless people over the years. She used to let them in her house, cook for them, & I'd get worried for her sometimes but she did that because of how she felt about her dad. So I just kept an eye on her. I still do because she's still like that to this day 🤷😂 she's practically a homeless person herself & she has a damn home lol
atlantic59 · 61-69, M
@RebelFox oh wow, and so true!
atlantic59 · 61-69, M
@ChiefJustWalks That is such a beautifully respectful tribute to your grandpa and your mom!💓
morrgin · F
Not all people who are homeless and show signs of tardive (drug related movement disorder) are drug addicts. Drugs may or may not cause a person to become homeless. Many people live on the street because of mental illness and domestic violence. Some people with a mental disorder use drugs to self medicate and its same for some people dealing with domestic violence. I really wish those who live on the street could be seen as the person they are now and not what we think they should be or what they were before.
I hope I didnt come off as rude. I just see it differently and feel strongly about certain subjects.
Regardless of my beliefs I still think it was very kind of you to notice someone who many make a point of ignoring. You feel empathy for others and see the value of an individual. You sound like a good person with a warm heart.☺️
JackJames · M
@morrgin I use to work with homeless people and this is very true. Amongst men, at the time it was about 87% of homeless were diagnosed with a mental illness. Now this lead them to be homeless and being homeless led them to drug dependency, as they found the drugs they used to help with, initially, their mental illness. As for women the stats are much lower for mental illness and a huge portion, like you said, is due to domestic violence. A lot run away and have to put up in a shelter or in homeless communities because most of their family don’t understand and wouldn’t help. To help deal with PTSD or other relatable issues they turn to drugs or alcohol to try and ‘forget’. One lady in our shelter was living on a reserve, and her ex was abusive. She was put in the hospital and no one helped her. She “disappeared” from the hospital, she couldn’t check herself out due to the injuries, and started living on the streets. She unfortunately got into prostitution to make money and drugs to forget what she was doing. This lead her to the place I worked. She had changed her life completely by the time I was there. You would never have guessed what she had been through. It’s sad when you hear their actual story and I get what @DearAmbellina2113. What were they like before, what would their life be like if they never went through these tragedies?
I'm not against capitalism but people could take more care in making sure people get fair wages and have a roof over their head. (In the US).
badminton · 61-69, MVIP
Too many lost souls in America. Here in San Francisco many people like that. You see them under freeway overpasses, homeless encampments, doorways. Why do so many of our citizens destroy themselves with meth, opioids and alcohol? What are they lacking?
Lilnonames · F
@badminton not all do drugs or drink some need help mentally and have no where to turn I've been homeless a couple times and seem I will b again soon but I have a car that helps
Eddiesolds · 61-69, M
This is why i help them. I feel so sorry for them. Id kill myself if i was that far gone.
atlantic59 · 61-69, M
@Eddiesolds No you wouldn't! You'd just keep on getting by, not realizing how bad it looked to other observers. You'd keep on surviving and carrying on. I think.
LadyJ · F
Yeah i always find these scenes upsetting myself..i always imagine what they were like as kids..so sad
So heartbreaking... :(
SW-User
We have the skeleton/zombie types in my town. Definitely an issue with meth and they don't seem to care, trying to take others down with them. Quite sad I must say
atlantic59 · 61-69, M
I saw a lot of that in Vancouver. People come to escape to the West Coast. Like California. And addiction comes easy..
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