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41-45, F
Looking for a DD or possibly CDD relationship
About Me About Me
Hi! Thanks for taking the time to read my "About Me" and I hope you like what you see.
I am not looking for just a hookup but an LTR. I am a fun but mischievous girl who enjoys a plethora of different things; I am looking for someone who complements me. He's intelligent, witty, thoughtful, and empathetic, among other things. I am not looking to be anyone's sub, certainly not in the “Master/slave sense” (I’m not judging but it’s just not my scene.)
Essentially I am looking for someone with whom I obviously get along with on a vanilla level but on a not so vanilla level re: what we’ve discussed, what you, I, and we think about things I could improve upon, maintenance, and our previously agreed upon on a set of rules, etc., I'll expect to be treated like a princess but I wouldn't want my man to hesitate to give me the sound spanking I deserve when needed.
Send me a message if this sounds like you! Serious inquires only please. I'm not interested in cyber or anything apart from building a LTR and am really looking to find "the one" because I'm so sick of BS and games. I'm prefacing that this is a very long but apt description of my beliefs, what I am looking for in a man, and why I am seeking a CDD relationship. I'm also actively seeking any if churches) which advocate this practice (ideally in my area but I’ll take what I can get at this point.)
Although I've always thought about being spanked because I do believe that people, especially women perform better with sore bottom and it absolutely perplexes me; I don’t know why this is so but I can certainly say I know I do so who am I to argue with proof? ;-(
I’ve always known I'd wanted a TiH 50s style marriage where my husband (HoH) would work (I’d stay at home to take care of the house and the kids,) but yet he also would have the authority to spank me presuming I broke one of our agreed upon rules, however my submission ended there. Although my submission ended there many years later I began to think about the divorce rate and how it was rare for marriages to break up in that era; I don't want a divorce and although there haven't been any studies done re: the subject (touché I know,) and although I could be totally insane, they had a tradition which worked that we seemed to have lost over the years. I legitimately believe if spanking were brought back as commonplace in marriage the divorce rate would plummet. Obviously I don't have any data to support my hypothesis, notwithstanding correlation does not necessarily equal causation, but at the very least a correlation exists.
I was recently told if one is bent over completely grabbing your ankles (obviously you’d need to be flexible) there is absolutely zero padding so any implement is the devil. The position itself isn't what's particularly scary but rather the fact that when you bend over that far you will find the skin around your bottom extremely taut leaving absolutely no padding whatsoever to protect your poor bottom... not that I had much to begin with.
Quasi recently I had my first experience with lexan paddles and let me just say they are Satan! Oh my gosh they are the absolute worst cuz not only does it sting like crazy like a massively huge hairbrush you also feel the thuddiness of the paddle so it’s excruciating. It’s like a twofer and I don’t think that’s very fair.
I'd also like to try Victorian Era style birchings/canings and I'd like to try pushing my limits with not only the birching itself but also being figged during the punishments (I've never experienced it myself but the stories I've heard oh my.) I also recently learned why the Victorians used the practice of figging and was quite surprised... those kinky Victorians. ;-)
Tbh idk if I could do it but I have thought about being spanked in public and it's quite fascinating; idk how this would happen except I guess at one of this fetish clubs but the focus would still be on me and that is absolutely terrifying (just the thought of others watching me squirm, yell, kick, and jump is excruciatingly embarrassing,) but something I've thought about nonetheless.
As of reason although I know I couldn't take it I've recently been wondering about what a judicial caning would be like and would be willing to at least give it a try with the understanding it would stop at any second's notice unless otherwise prefaced.
Although I’ve never been spanked by a female the thought intrigued me very much and I don’t mean in any sexual way. Tbh I’d prefer someone who was older and possibly maternal. I’ve also heard women are wicked with the hairbrush and I’ve never experienced that. Again if you’re a female and this sounds like you please write but if you’re looking for anything beyond giving a girl a sound spanking when she deserves it I’m not the one for you.
It wasn't until I was saved and REALLY read The Bible that I truly learned what God wanted for me and so much else; it’s literally a guide to life re: finances, treating others, your marriage, child rearing, etc., including God's design for a woman's role in marriage. It was at this point when I realized I needed to submit to my husband (and not in the BDSM master/slave sense because I don’t judge,) but because it's God's design: God --> husband --> wife --> children.
Once I realized this was God's way, although I still knew I wanted a TiY DD 1950s type marriage (and to be blatantly honest always have since I was first introduced to the entire concept years ago,) I’d prefer a CDD relationship because that has been His plan throughout all of civilization and who’s boastful enough to think he or she knows more than God? However I’m not at all opposed to a DD relationship with anyone of any religion or even if they’re an atheist as long as they share the rest of my views re: relationship. However with everything “society” is regurgitating to us about virtually everything (i.e., loans, feminism, and child rearing, etc.,) it’s evident that “society” believes their way is better than God’s… just to reiterate there is no word greater than that of the word of The Lord.
Although I’ve been quite familiar with DD for many years I had never heard of CDD until recently when I was doing research on DD, specifically how to find a good, safe, and sane man, when I saw a negative article Re: CDD and although I had no idea what the “C” stood for, I had a pretty good idea what the latter letters represented.
Not only was the article misinformed but it was purposefully written to imply DD and CDD are completely barbaric; the author stated the woman couldn’t do a single thing without asking her husband first (i.e., the wife going to her husband “in a baby” voice every time she was flummoxed, etc.,) but also insinuated bloggers and commenters sounded as though they were childish and stupid for not only accepting the discipline, but for deriving comfort from the aftercare. Furthermore the mental experts, of course, had to weigh in and it was heavily intimated that both roles in the aforesaid relations were crazy, alluding to the fact the women were “infantilized” while simultaneously the men were “emotionally disturbed,” and had “intimacy deficits.” Uh insulting much?
Even though I only have practical experience with DD and not the aforesaid I found the article to be dull and downright insulting, however because of this article I wanted to know what CDD was so I hit up the google machine, and found the www.christiandomesticdiscipline.com website, read every article, looked up the associating verses to confirm, and prayed to God about it. After having done so I truly believe it was and is His will that I live this type of relationship so I went back to my Bible, and read some more.
God created this plan and commanded that a woman submit to her husband; if one is submitting there must be authority so what exactly are you submitting to? You’re submitting to The Lord by submitting to your husband, who is submitting to The Lord, and are thereby doing His work, but moreover it logically follows if authority exists rules must be enforced and in place; if there are rules there must be consequences in order for any house to run smoothly and sufficiently. The Bible is extremely clear on exactly what these consequences should be.
I used to believe Proverbs and Hebrews etc., applied solely to children but now that I know God's designed order, with the husband as the HoH,) is responsible for all within his home, even the servants. Many, myself included, believed those applied solely to children but because her husband is responsible for her as well her sins, without cleansing they will both go to hell. This made me really pray for a long time and I was bombarded with questions and verses to look up, but most notably Hebrews 12:11 (“Now no chastening seemeth to be joyous, but grievous: nevertheless afterwards yields the peaceful fruit of righteousness unto them which are exercised by,”) Hebrews 12:6 ("For whom the Lord loveth he chasteneth, and scourgeth every son whom He receiveth,”) and most importantly Proverbs 23:13 ("Withhold not correction from the child for if thou beatest him with the rod he shall not die. You shall beat him with the rod, and deliver his soul from hell.”) This verse not only speaks to the fact of just how much it must grieve the husband to spank his wife and children, thereby causing them pain, he does it because he loves them, and knows it is right to save them from the depths of hell.
Clearly Hebrews 12:6 is referring to all of His children and although God may not be literally scourging us He certainly isn’t afraid to punish us whenever He sees fit and re: Hebrews 12:11 I think most would agree that punishment is never fun at the time but we always perform better afterwards; as much as we may not like it it’s good for us and The Creator knows this.
I know everyone is flummoxed right now because everyone believes Proverbs 23:13 deals solely with children, and prior to my "awakening," I did too. However we are all God’s children and therefore I don’t think it applies to just children but to everyone. I also began to think again about God's order for the household: God --> husband --> wife --> children, implying the children are under the protection of the parents and answer to them. Just as the parents are responsible for their children the husband is responsible for his wife and he must answer to God! Imagine that and just let it marinate for a minute: the wives and children must answer to man but he answers to God. I'd rather get a spanking from my husband than get one from God, let alone be the one responsible for my entire household going to hell. I know it sounds archaic but I truly believe this is the way to live a Godly marriage and household.
Phew! If you're still here: congratulations lol and my apologies for the dissertation, but I wanted to make sure I stated the aforesaid, because I'd prefer you know my beliefs before even contacting me, because at my age I'm not looking to just date and I didn’t want to wasted either yours or my time. Undoubtedly a marriage begins with dating, which begins with a friendship however that is the only thing I'm looking for; I am not looking to "just date." I am looking for my life partner and would like to have at least one child so I don’t want to wait much longer so if the aforementioned describes you, your beliefs, and how you feel about your future wife and children (you will treasure them always but chasten when needed,) please don’t hesitate to send me a DM. I look forward to hearing from those who share my same beliefs and want the same thing.
XO
I am not looking for just a hookup but an LTR. I am a fun but mischievous girl who enjoys a plethora of different things; I am looking for someone who complements me. He's intelligent, witty, thoughtful, and empathetic, among other things. I am not looking to be anyone's sub, certainly not in the “Master/slave sense” (I’m not judging but it’s just not my scene.)
Essentially I am looking for someone with whom I obviously get along with on a vanilla level but on a not so vanilla level re: what we’ve discussed, what you, I, and we think about things I could improve upon, maintenance, and our previously agreed upon on a set of rules, etc., I'll expect to be treated like a princess but I wouldn't want my man to hesitate to give me the sound spanking I deserve when needed.
Send me a message if this sounds like you! Serious inquires only please. I'm not interested in cyber or anything apart from building a LTR and am really looking to find "the one" because I'm so sick of BS and games. I'm prefacing that this is a very long but apt description of my beliefs, what I am looking for in a man, and why I am seeking a CDD relationship. I'm also actively seeking any if churches) which advocate this practice (ideally in my area but I’ll take what I can get at this point.)
Although I've always thought about being spanked because I do believe that people, especially women perform better with sore bottom and it absolutely perplexes me; I don’t know why this is so but I can certainly say I know I do so who am I to argue with proof? ;-(
I’ve always known I'd wanted a TiH 50s style marriage where my husband (HoH) would work (I’d stay at home to take care of the house and the kids,) but yet he also would have the authority to spank me presuming I broke one of our agreed upon rules, however my submission ended there. Although my submission ended there many years later I began to think about the divorce rate and how it was rare for marriages to break up in that era; I don't want a divorce and although there haven't been any studies done re: the subject (touché I know,) and although I could be totally insane, they had a tradition which worked that we seemed to have lost over the years. I legitimately believe if spanking were brought back as commonplace in marriage the divorce rate would plummet. Obviously I don't have any data to support my hypothesis, notwithstanding correlation does not necessarily equal causation, but at the very least a correlation exists.
I was recently told if one is bent over completely grabbing your ankles (obviously you’d need to be flexible) there is absolutely zero padding so any implement is the devil. The position itself isn't what's particularly scary but rather the fact that when you bend over that far you will find the skin around your bottom extremely taut leaving absolutely no padding whatsoever to protect your poor bottom... not that I had much to begin with.
Quasi recently I had my first experience with lexan paddles and let me just say they are Satan! Oh my gosh they are the absolute worst cuz not only does it sting like crazy like a massively huge hairbrush you also feel the thuddiness of the paddle so it’s excruciating. It’s like a twofer and I don’t think that’s very fair.
I'd also like to try Victorian Era style birchings/canings and I'd like to try pushing my limits with not only the birching itself but also being figged during the punishments (I've never experienced it myself but the stories I've heard oh my.) I also recently learned why the Victorians used the practice of figging and was quite surprised... those kinky Victorians. ;-)
Tbh idk if I could do it but I have thought about being spanked in public and it's quite fascinating; idk how this would happen except I guess at one of this fetish clubs but the focus would still be on me and that is absolutely terrifying (just the thought of others watching me squirm, yell, kick, and jump is excruciatingly embarrassing,) but something I've thought about nonetheless.
As of reason although I know I couldn't take it I've recently been wondering about what a judicial caning would be like and would be willing to at least give it a try with the understanding it would stop at any second's notice unless otherwise prefaced.
Although I’ve never been spanked by a female the thought intrigued me very much and I don’t mean in any sexual way. Tbh I’d prefer someone who was older and possibly maternal. I’ve also heard women are wicked with the hairbrush and I’ve never experienced that. Again if you’re a female and this sounds like you please write but if you’re looking for anything beyond giving a girl a sound spanking when she deserves it I’m not the one for you.
It wasn't until I was saved and REALLY read The Bible that I truly learned what God wanted for me and so much else; it’s literally a guide to life re: finances, treating others, your marriage, child rearing, etc., including God's design for a woman's role in marriage. It was at this point when I realized I needed to submit to my husband (and not in the BDSM master/slave sense because I don’t judge,) but because it's God's design: God --> husband --> wife --> children.
Once I realized this was God's way, although I still knew I wanted a TiY DD 1950s type marriage (and to be blatantly honest always have since I was first introduced to the entire concept years ago,) I’d prefer a CDD relationship because that has been His plan throughout all of civilization and who’s boastful enough to think he or she knows more than God? However I’m not at all opposed to a DD relationship with anyone of any religion or even if they’re an atheist as long as they share the rest of my views re: relationship. However with everything “society” is regurgitating to us about virtually everything (i.e., loans, feminism, and child rearing, etc.,) it’s evident that “society” believes their way is better than God’s… just to reiterate there is no word greater than that of the word of The Lord.
Although I’ve been quite familiar with DD for many years I had never heard of CDD until recently when I was doing research on DD, specifically how to find a good, safe, and sane man, when I saw a negative article Re: CDD and although I had no idea what the “C” stood for, I had a pretty good idea what the latter letters represented.
Not only was the article misinformed but it was purposefully written to imply DD and CDD are completely barbaric; the author stated the woman couldn’t do a single thing without asking her husband first (i.e., the wife going to her husband “in a baby” voice every time she was flummoxed, etc.,) but also insinuated bloggers and commenters sounded as though they were childish and stupid for not only accepting the discipline, but for deriving comfort from the aftercare. Furthermore the mental experts, of course, had to weigh in and it was heavily intimated that both roles in the aforesaid relations were crazy, alluding to the fact the women were “infantilized” while simultaneously the men were “emotionally disturbed,” and had “intimacy deficits.” Uh insulting much?
Even though I only have practical experience with DD and not the aforesaid I found the article to be dull and downright insulting, however because of this article I wanted to know what CDD was so I hit up the google machine, and found the www.christiandomesticdiscipline.com website, read every article, looked up the associating verses to confirm, and prayed to God about it. After having done so I truly believe it was and is His will that I live this type of relationship so I went back to my Bible, and read some more.
God created this plan and commanded that a woman submit to her husband; if one is submitting there must be authority so what exactly are you submitting to? You’re submitting to The Lord by submitting to your husband, who is submitting to The Lord, and are thereby doing His work, but moreover it logically follows if authority exists rules must be enforced and in place; if there are rules there must be consequences in order for any house to run smoothly and sufficiently. The Bible is extremely clear on exactly what these consequences should be.
I used to believe Proverbs and Hebrews etc., applied solely to children but now that I know God's designed order, with the husband as the HoH,) is responsible for all within his home, even the servants. Many, myself included, believed those applied solely to children but because her husband is responsible for her as well her sins, without cleansing they will both go to hell. This made me really pray for a long time and I was bombarded with questions and verses to look up, but most notably Hebrews 12:11 (“Now no chastening seemeth to be joyous, but grievous: nevertheless afterwards yields the peaceful fruit of righteousness unto them which are exercised by,”) Hebrews 12:6 ("For whom the Lord loveth he chasteneth, and scourgeth every son whom He receiveth,”) and most importantly Proverbs 23:13 ("Withhold not correction from the child for if thou beatest him with the rod he shall not die. You shall beat him with the rod, and deliver his soul from hell.”) This verse not only speaks to the fact of just how much it must grieve the husband to spank his wife and children, thereby causing them pain, he does it because he loves them, and knows it is right to save them from the depths of hell.
Clearly Hebrews 12:6 is referring to all of His children and although God may not be literally scourging us He certainly isn’t afraid to punish us whenever He sees fit and re: Hebrews 12:11 I think most would agree that punishment is never fun at the time but we always perform better afterwards; as much as we may not like it it’s good for us and The Creator knows this.
I know everyone is flummoxed right now because everyone believes Proverbs 23:13 deals solely with children, and prior to my "awakening," I did too. However we are all God’s children and therefore I don’t think it applies to just children but to everyone. I also began to think again about God's order for the household: God --> husband --> wife --> children, implying the children are under the protection of the parents and answer to them. Just as the parents are responsible for their children the husband is responsible for his wife and he must answer to God! Imagine that and just let it marinate for a minute: the wives and children must answer to man but he answers to God. I'd rather get a spanking from my husband than get one from God, let alone be the one responsible for my entire household going to hell. I know it sounds archaic but I truly believe this is the way to live a Godly marriage and household.
Phew! If you're still here: congratulations lol and my apologies for the dissertation, but I wanted to make sure I stated the aforesaid, because I'd prefer you know my beliefs before even contacting me, because at my age I'm not looking to just date and I didn’t want to wasted either yours or my time. Undoubtedly a marriage begins with dating, which begins with a friendship however that is the only thing I'm looking for; I am not looking to "just date." I am looking for my life partner and would like to have at least one child so I don’t want to wait much longer so if the aforementioned describes you, your beliefs, and how you feel about your future wife and children (you will treasure them always but chasten when needed,) please don’t hesitate to send me a DM. I look forward to hearing from those who share my same beliefs and want the same thing.
XO