Am I making a big deal?I have been chatting with a guy for about two weeks and long story short today I asked him when is the last time he has been on a date and he said just last night I met with someone for a coffee date. I was not expecting for him to say that and...See More »
Is it smart?I recently moved into a new place and have met some of my neighbors and they seem nice and their like “yes my name is such and such and I live in unit such and such” and I don’t feel comfortable letting them know my unit as i barely met them. I am ve...See More »
Do any of you have a hard time with….?I have a hard time when I feel upset or had a bad day. I get really upset with myself when I don’t do something right, make a mistake, or feel annoyed with someone. It makes me feel even more annoyed when I feel this way. I feel like a bad person...See More »
Am I tripping?This past weekend I catch up with a friend and during our lunch I shared with her about another weekend. I shared how a guy told me I was “wifey” material and how I chuckled. Fast forward I was expecting my friend to hype me up as well and be like...See More »
What would you do?Today I was talking to one of my fairly new coworkers and I usually pretty much get along with her however today when I was talking to her on the phone she mentioned something about something being annoying and everything kinda happen to fast I...See More »
Best face filler?I am thinking of getting some face filler to make me feel happier, I think. I dunno. I don’t feel as attractive as before.
I miss my momThis will be the first holidays where I don’t have my mom. I miss her incredibly and I still get the urge to call her. Sometimes I don’t want to be strong 💪 it’s hard having to act like everything is okay but when I am alone I am not. Since my mom...See More »
Is this micro managing or what?I wfh and just had a team meeting and my manger mentions how we have to ask her when we put ourselves in Do not disturb status, or when we are away from our computer, or how they know how may key strokes we do on our computer. Like wtf!
Recommend this book! If you are like me and have struggled with emotional disregulation and are really hard on yourself than I recommend this. I am becoming more aware of my emotions especially in stressful situations like the one I had just an hour ago and I must...See More »
Do you think consider YouTube social media?I do in a sense and don’t, however I realized that when I have watched it puts anxiety on me and makes me think of irrational things that I would have never thought of. Anywho I just deleted it for the thousandth time and am hoping to focus on...See More »
Do you have nice neighbors?I thought I lost my cat yesterday and my next door neighbor heard me looking for her and he came out and started looking for her with me along with another girl I see at times who was out already started helping me too. This was like at 8pm ish....See More »
Do you have nightmares?More recently I have been having nightmares that like I feel this dark thing trying to get me kinda like sleep paralysis where I am trying to get up and I can feel the spirit of something bad staring at me through my closet or my door. Every time u...See More »
What keeps you going?My faith in God is what keeps me going, even though I get upset and am unsure if he’s real at times. God is what makes sense and even if I am afraid and scared and miss my mom. God please help me. I have never experienced so much grief in my life...See More »
Aging sucksEspecially as a girl, why do we have a shorter life span when it comes to youth and looks. There so much pressure to remain youthful and attractive especially where I live. It’s not fair that once women hit 30 we are told we hit the “wall” and we...See More »
Married childless couplesDo you think married couples without kids can be happy and have a fulfilling life? I am on the fence about having kids and I dunno if I want them. I love kids but unsure I want to make a lifetime commitment of someone really depending on me. I...See More »
Can someone pray for me?Pray for my career and that God has his hand in it. I am kinda worried as I just want to make good money and be successful.
Do you get confused with yourself?I sometimes don’t know how to differentiate when I am standing up for myself or making a big deal. Sometimes I think I am dramatic when I set boundaries or ask what I need, maybe it’s because any time I tried expressing my feelings as a kid or even...See More »
Has anyone ever been diagnosed with complex PTSD?I have and on my healing journey since forever but curious to know if anyone has ever been in a relationship with a mental illness? How was it like if so? I am scared to be alone forever as no one has ever seen me in distressed really upset angry...See More »
What do you during your spare time?I am trying to find more productive self growth ways like read more instead of spending countless hours on YouTube when I am not working or exercising.
What would you do?Short back story, I switched careers back in May and 3 weeks into my position my manager who hired me told me her boss said I had to move to a different team, no option given just you gotta move. Fast forward I have been on this team with one other...See More »
What would you choose?A job you love working or switching departments because feel alone and unsupported and uncomfortable by your supervisor/team? Mind you I work from home and I work with one other person but which I still have to come in contact with them on a daily...See More »
What the hellWent to Starbucks and the cashier lady got my order wrong it seems as I went to the bathroom while they were making my drink, I came back and the girl making my drink shared, “you got hot one right as she was talking yo another customer” and I said...See More »
