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I Submit To My Husband Through Domestic Discipline

Time Management.
Yesterday was beautiful outside. I wanted to go out and get some craft items. I wanted us all to go. Sir told me he was staying home with the children, but wants me to go.

They have not kept up with chores and I have felt like the "lazy" maid. My children are old enough to pick up their rooms, etc. It has caused me to stress out at their laziness. The whole family is getting back on track. I can not do my part with out others doing theirs. Like we explained to the children. Daddy's part is working, if he doesn't, we have no home or food. A family is a team. In my home anyways.

Sir told me to go without them. He explained I never go out without the children. I am home all the time. When I go out, I end up buying for the children and not myself. I never buy myself anything. I had coupons, my chores where done, I was good. So he saw no reason is not letting me go. He stayed home, did leftovers with the kids. Made them do their chores until bed time.

I was told to be home at 8pm. I didn't have a spending limit, I just had to keep it reasonable. Which I did not spend to much. I just don't like spending money on myself.

I was reminded through text, to be good, have fun and to not be late. I love when he texts me this way. I just cant explain it really. I texted him at 743 that I was on my way. He said to be safe and don't be late. I planned to leave at 730. I'm bad at time management (new rule, working progress).

I was late :(

He texted me at 801 "you're late". I was just up the street. I was so close. My car read 802 when I got home. His clock read 805. This was the first time we did this. I was given a warning for it to not happen again. He knows I tried hard and watched the clock. I still failed BUT my warning told me next time I will be in trouble. regardless of 1 minute or 5 minutes.

I must say I liked him wanting me home at a certain time. it's comforting. We still went to bed together and got up together. My going out did not interfere with our schedule and routine. For that I'm very happy. I was in my head to mindful, good and to not disappoint him. I was almost 100% successful.

I got to show him what I got. I love doing that. I was happy with the sale. I was also happy I didn't get my daughter anything this time. He told me to shop for me. I'm always giving in to them and getting them stuff. So every time I went to put it in my cart, I put it back.

Thank you Sir, for allowing "me" time. Next time I wont be late. I love you!
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Gisellebi
Think of it this way, some people think its disrespectful to be late. Just plan better and you won't be late.
SilencedShy · 41-45, F
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