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Grudges are a waste of happiness!

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I saw this on Facebook and thought it was worth sharing.
That makes me smile on a challenging day. Thank you. Always good to be reminded of what's really important.
SweetMae · 70-79, F
@FrosinStjarna I am happy you could smile.
I suspect that there are a lot of smiles around you, @SweetMae. You seem to cultivate them.
SweetMae · 70-79, F
@FrosinStjarna I do smile a lot. Thank you.
Thank you for sharing...

I love it...

🌹🌹🌹🌹🤗💞
SweetMae · 70-79, F
@Soossie 🌹🌹🌹🌹🤗💕 I do too.
Bright and beautiful thoughts that light up our day...😍 Thank you for being you, Mae 🌸😘🦋💙 You rock!
SweetMae · 70-79, F
@Vivaci You are welcome. ✌️ Take some time to heal too.
Will do...💋Thank you!! 😇🤗 @SweetMae
SweetMae · 70-79, F
@Vivaci 🤗💕🌹
ncgremlin · 56-60, M
I like it. Just wish I could do that
ncgremlin · 56-60, M
@Darin99branch yes it is difficult at times
SweetMae · 70-79, F
I do know how difficult it can be. @Darin99branch @ncgremlin
ncgremlin · 56-60, M
@SweetMae 🙂
Harriet03 · 41-45, F
That is true.
However never be so kind, that you stop being clever!!
SweetMae · 70-79, F
@Harriet03 True. Guard your heart and mind.
Harriet03 · 41-45, F
@SweetMae Indeed. People are quick to take advantage!!
inaccessible · 51-55, M
What if grudge doesn't wanna leave me. How can someone forgives another when unnecessary pain inflected by the latter haunts them every wherever they go. The words are true but hardly applicable. Only time heal wounds and weaken our memory enough to forget.
SweetMae · 70-79, F
@inaccessible I am not saying you should forgive or forget. It does help if we let go of the anger. Anger keeps us from being happy.. It took me a long time to let go of the anger too.
inaccessible · 51-55, M
@SweetMae
It does feels better to let go, the problem as I said sometimes it doesn't let us go😁
SweetMae · 70-79, F
@inaccessible That is true. It took me many years.
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SweetMae · 70-79, F
@TwistedSister I hope you can find some peace. It took me a really long time. 🤗
SW-User
I'm guessing the author wasn't bullied on a daily basis or stuck in a hopeless situation. It sounds good, though.
SweetMae · 70-79, F
@SW-User The author may not have but I have been.
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I hold them forever.
SweetMae · 70-79, F
@Average2122 I am sorry. I am sure it must be difficult.
@SweetMae No, it is not. I hold them and keep them and wait till I can give back double. Goodbye
SweetMae · 70-79, F
@Average2122 Goodbye
Nanori · F
Hating certian people makes me happy
SweetMae · 70-79, F
@Nanori Glad that is working for you.
MoonlightLullaby · 41-45, F
💝.....

Hate is heavier on the person holding onto it
SweetMae · 70-79, F
@MoonlightLullaby Yes, many people are unaware of the anger we harbor. They go on their happy way.
Darin99branch · 51-55, M
I agree wholeheartedly.
SweetMae · 70-79, F
@Darin99branch It is a picture too!
Ferric67 · M
Fantastic Mae
SweetMae · 70-79, F
@Ferric67 Thank you. 😊
I agree with pretty much all of that, wise words, except to add that some things are unforgivable.
@SweetMae finding a way to let go of the anger for our own sakes, yes. Moving on , definitely yes. Forgive or forget , mostly yes but some things are truly unforgivable and I’ll never forgive or forget.
@SweetMae now I’ve seen your amended answer yes I agree 🙏
SweetMae · 70-79, F
@TopOfTheWorld I know. Some things will always remain with me too.
without my grudge my car would take forever to warm up in the morning
SweetMae · 70-79, F
@saragoodtimes That seems warm enough to me!! 🤷‍♀️
@SweetMae I can go out to the car carrying my coat . it's comfortable there
SweetMae · 70-79, F
@saragoodtimes Those kind are worth keeping!! 🤭
SW-User
Really good one, thanks.
As long as we regurgitating and talking bout what someone else did, we are carrying around that baggage
To hold a grudge lets the past control your present and future .. I've got no time for that
SweetMae · 70-79, F
@Harriet03 Yes! You are right. It doesn't mean we can't walk away.
have apologized , hoping she'll let go. now it's out of my hands.
BigT93 · 70-79, M
Absolutely ! So good ! Thank you for sharing.
BigT93 · 70-79, M
Thank you SweetMae. Well worth sharing !
Peaches · F
YES❣️😊 [i]Miss you...[/i]
melbeacher · 56-60, M
Eddiesolds · 61-69, M
Zonuss · 41-45, M
It's a waste of time.

 
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