I've Been Through a Bad Break Up [Painful Breakups]

my now ex and i broke up after 6 years together... IDL how to handle this. I can't bring myself to block his number

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Bebop · 31-35, M

I couldn't bring myself to block my ex's number ever.
I had to delete it and even then i'd still answer..

KeKeNae · 26-30, F

@Bebop Did you ever block it or stop answering?

Bebop · 31-35, M

@KeKeNae I stopped for a while, tried to be friends but it was toxic. I've cut off all contact now, and i don't have to block because they don't call.

It'd of been easier if I had though from the beginning.

KeKeNae · 26-30, F

@Bebop It's not like he texts me anyway. But just in case he were to ever text at least I wouldn't know.

Bebop · 31-35, M

@KeKeNae As long as you aren't just waiting for one and constantly thinking about it. Makes it hard to move on and can drive you kinda crazy.

KeKeNae · 26-30, F

@Bebop That's how it has been these past few weeks. It is just hard going from talking/seeing him everyday for 6 years to not at all

Bebop · 31-35, M

@KeKeNae Well remember the reason why you broke up, and set yourself a time where you block the number so you can start to move on. It must be really hard..but you've gotta do this for yourself or you just prolong the process. *hugs* 😔

KeKeNae · 26-30, F

@Bebop i know I know. It just all sucks and I have been trying to distract myself but I still always find myself thinking about him and wondering where it all went wrong. How could he just walk away after 6 years??

Bebop · 31-35, M

@KeKeNae Yeah it's torment isn't it. Did he give you any reason? I didn't get a reason for mine and it hurt me deeply.