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I Think Smart Is Sexy

I don't hold back in conversation and I have yet to find a man who isn't intimidated by not only my knowledge base but also simply my vocabulary. So I want to find a man who not only professes to love an intelligent woman but who can actually stand toe-to-toe with one. Just sayin'.
We're in the same boat. I've had to learn to tone down my subject matter and means of expressing so people don't look at me like I have three heads. My counselor has told me I come off sounding line an arrogant college professor. It isn't my intent, and I don't put myself above anyone, really. Everyone has the same value. But it's so tiresome having to gear down just to have the caliber of conversation I would enjoy with someone.
lovingdead · 31-35, M
first off you are a female, thus having the upper hand on most men due to us usually have to split brainpower between two heads.

and second, may i inquire as to what kind of man you are looking for?
relationship or general online mind stimulating buddy?

can i possibly apply for the second one? is there a test?
SushiRed · 51-55, F
@lovingdead online mental stimulation sounds appealing lol
lovingdead · 31-35, M
@SushiRed that's what i thought after i typed it
SW-User
I have "loved" intelligent women, but wasn't intelligent enough to recognize that it was love . I guess I thought I was intelligent, but it turns out I was nothing but a smart ass.....and the two are not the same thing, in spite of how hard I tried to convince people they were.lol
sometimeslonelytoo · 51-55, M
I guess we all look for connection in a relationship, so if you are articulate, intelligent and attractive I think it's reasonable for you to expect the same in your partner. I hope you find someone more than satisfactory, if you are looking.
SW-User
It's always a good idea to proof read before posting..

Just sayin..
;)
SW-User
@SushiRed
I love an intelligent woman!
;)
SushiRed · 51-55, F
Smarter than this stupid phone, I know that! Lol
SW-User
@SushiRed
Predictive text is annoying sometimes.
:)
G4RYCOL3MAN · 31-35, M
I have yet to find a woman who can put up with my sarcasm and smartassness. So I know how you feel. 👀
SushiRed · 51-55, F
@G4RYCOL3MAN I'll see your sarcasm and raise you some snark!
G4RYCOL3MAN · 31-35, M
@SushiRed Bring it on.
bluesmanmark · 46-50, M
If I weren't already very happily married to & very much in love with an intelligent woman I'd love to get to know you better.
TheProphet · M
I love intelligent women and I could certainly keep up with you.
SushiRed · 51-55, F
@TheProphet lol hugs
TheProphet · M
@SushiRed Hugs to you too.🌹❤
Ghauzy · 51-55, M
You are intelligent, beautiful and sexy. You got my attention. I’m in a rush right now but I’ll PM you later.
Mugin16 · 46-50, M
Is that a challenge? ;-)
SushiRed · 51-55, F
@Mugin16 hah. If we were face to face, sure. But not here. Texting is substandard communication for sure.
Gforce1163 · 56-60, M
Challenge accepted 🙂
jaymic64 · M
Sounds perfect to me
yfma53 · 70-79, M
Anytime, my friend!
samueltyler2 · 80-89, M
Are you just a little bit conceited.
bluesmanmark · 46-50, M
@samueltyler2 Hmmmm, sounds like you just might be one of those men that's just a little bit intimidated instead........ 😆
SushiRed · 51-55, F
@samueltyler2 Nope, I'm just stating a fact of my experience. I'm fine with you thinking it's conceit, it's no skin off my nose.
Must he also like sushi ?
SushiRed · 51-55, F
@BiasForAction I do believe that is implied, yes. Fish is brain food.
uncalled4 · 56-60, M
Intelligent people are sexy. Morons are not. That said, there may be an unintended hint of posturing in your post. Not intimidated by strong or intelligent women, but I am leery of challenges. Can you clarify?
SushiRed · 51-55, F
@uncalled4 Unintended posturing? No, more like intentional venting. Ending a 2 year relationship where I heard, simultaneously, "I love how smart you are," and, "You use big words to make me feel stupid." Some fragile male egos crumble when challenged not necessarily with a greater intellect, but with any knowledge they don't possess which might require them to listen rather than speak. That's just my bitch today.

 
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