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I never thought I would talk in such a negative way.. but here it goes..

* I hate my job and the people I work with. They are the type of people that provides such a negative energy that you just don't wanna be around them
* I hate the neighborhood where I live.
* I hate the clothes I own. They are not my type and I don't like them but I have to wear them anyways because that's all I got.
* I hate my hair because it is thin and frizzy and I wish I didn't have to blow dry it and just let it natural but it doesn't look good.
And I also hate that I don't have the money or the options to change all those things I hate.

I just needed to get all this out of my chest for once instead of rolling my eyes thinking about all these..
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Job - leave, plenty of other
work going with better peeps

Neighbourhood - close your curtains and play some music ..... switch off. They can鈥檛 bother you in your safe haven 馃幍

Clothes - they we鈥檙e probably made in China or some other country in a sweat shop by people who have literally nothing, living hand to mouth each day so designers can sell their goods .... including the badly designed items, they don鈥檛 care .... try making your own as a hobby to your own taste using different fabrics or speak to a seamstress who is qualified to create what you would like.

Hair - you have a head full, more than some men and women have. Appreciate it 馃尭

Hate - nah that鈥檚 just gonna make you feel worse. Focus on what you have instead of what you want and in time this day will be a page in your history book

Lastly don鈥檛 roll your eyes - one day they are gonna stay like that 馃檮 lol joking 馃檭

Take Care and hope you feel better soon 馃挄
SweetGirl202031-35, F
@SW-User Your reply really touched my heart. Thank you so much for your beautiful words馃挒
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Humbly thanks you 馃槍馃憤馃徏馃尫@SweetGirl2020

4meAndyouF
I have thin hair, too. AND it's frizzy if the weather is humid. The best non-blow dryer solution I ever found was...apply Pantene silicone based deep conditioner to the hair, (about 2 tsp for long hair), and let it air dry. It is supposed to be rinsed out, but it works really well as a leave in conditioner and helps to reduce frizz. AFTER your hair has air dried, use a Ceramic Hair Straightening brush, called Simply Straight. They sell them on Amazon.com for only 10.99. It straightens the hair, and if you spray it, afterward, with moisture blocking hair spray, it will look good all day.

Start putting out your resume to other companies. It may be easy to find another job WHILE you are working. Look for someplace that has a positive, healthy work culture.

Once you get out of that job, you will feel happier. You might even make a higher salary! Remember...at the end of every season, (like summer), you can usually find great bargains on clothes. Buy one new piece of clothing at the end of every season. I can't afford to buy Talbot's clothes, but they are extremely well made...so I buy ONE shirt when they go on clearance sale.
SweetGirl202031-35, F
@4meAndyou I love your reply. Thank you for talking to time to tell me all this. I will check out the brush. I also need to buy a new hair dryer for this hair lol
4meAndyouF
@SweetGirl2020 Don't use a hair dryer at all. You will deform your hair with it, which will cause it to break, and you will appear to be a lot frizzier. It's been a long, hard road getting over the frizzies...but I am glad to share.
MondayschildF
Can you put a little money back for a few clothes you would like. Check the good will stores. When you dry your hair use a round brush to add volume. Just my opinion.
@Mondayschild Not a joke I have found things are good will that turn peoples head and make them ask me where I found it.

Have an AWESOME dragon Tshirt for instance and I have to let people down and let them know I found it there.

This is getting rather familiar experience wise.

I think t he one thing I DISLIKE is mom just buys anything, band tshirts, etc for me and I end up with people commenting about bands I dont even know exist. If I drove on my own I would forbid her from doing this for me.

the thing about second hand stores is it might be someone elses trash but they loved it at one point enough to buy it so everything there has been prefiltered.
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GreenNatured9526-30, F
Agree with negative workplace been dealing with mine for 3 years. But for now I just grateful that in employment. I've heard people in worse situations. I hope things go better for you. If you can change anything do it. If you cant do something you love or what calms you.
Pretzel61-69, M
*hugs you*
I hated my job too so I quit now I have no job no income am having no luck finding another job am about to lose my car have a huge credit card debt that I cant pay and I'm pretty much ready to just give up and say fuck all of it
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You need a long road trip for some new scenery and decompression time
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FernieF
what are you gonna do about all that?

 
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