Ok, how about I just tell you that even though it doesn't seem like it now, everything that happens makes you stronger, and wiser, life isn't fair, and there isn't a damn thing we can do about it, which sucks, no matter how hard we try, no matter what we do, life will still try to break us down, it's how we react that shapes us for the future.
Sadly, life sucks sometimes. I don't say that to be sarcastic, either. We all go through tough times in our lives. Just work through those times, learn what you can from them, then use what you've learned in the future and to help others when they go through similar issues in their lives.