Relative of mine may or may not be going into military, they were telling me this

While we went out to eat. I had a huge paragraph written up but deleted it because I know, no matter what I say, I'll get someone who will have to speak their mind, and it won't be helpful or supportive. *** And that's all I am looking for here. If your comment isn't helpful or supportive, then there's no need for me to read how miserable and vile you really are.

I've got anxiety so bad, I can't eat for two whole straight days. And even then it might be half a bowl of soup and I'm full. Then when the anxiety attack is finally done, I get extremely hungry. So, you think about having this affliction while you write someone a mean comment, then tell me how you feel.

Do to others, as you would have them do to you. <---- this is basic, and common sense. You probably shouldn't write comments, if they're all going to be nasty.