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I Wish I Was In a Great Relationship

Advice on getting out of a toxic relationship while being a stay at home mom? I'm in Texas if that makes a difference, four hours away from any of my own family and friends.... there's just so much, I've been trying to get back into school and he's being less than supportive. I feel like his mom more than anything. I woke up too late to make coffee without realizing the other morning and asked if he wanted me to make coffee for him before work and his response was "it's too fucking late now." It's like that for everything. I'm just so exhausted. If it wasn't for his mom and mine we wouldn't have anything. I have three boys, I'm thinking of just getting an entry level job and leaving, How did you do it?
DarkSideoftheMoon · 31-35, F
I kicked my ex husband out and cops were involved more than once. I took out credit cards to help with Bill's until I was able to find a 2nd job. Then I found a higher paying job and now I'm able to support myself but I'm still trying to get out of debt. I moved to a smaller place. We did divorce after the split but it took a long time because he was incouporitive. The hardest part was having the courage to do it. It is hard but luckily the courts usually side with the women in terms of custody. Maybe see if you can stay with family?
XcookiexbakerX · 31-35, F
@DarkSideoftheMoon thank you, hearing your story makes me feel it's possible. If I do stay with family I'd have to move me and my kids four hours away so I'm hesitant.
DarkSideoftheMoon · 31-35, F
@XcookiexbakerX do what's best for you and your kids. Goodluck
User41 · 36-40, M
Talk to a lawyer
XcookiexbakerX · 31-35, F
@User41 I think I'm just going to go for it. Wish me luck.
User41 · 36-40, M
You don’t need luck.

Just do you. You’ll figure it out as you go

@XcookiexbakerX
XcookiexbakerX · 31-35, F
@User41 thanks.
Go to a womens resource center ask for help they will help you
XcookiexbakerX · 31-35, F
@ExperienceDLT I'll look into it.
@XcookiexbakerX good luck to you
MartinTheFirst · 22-25, M
I wouldnt get three boys with someone like that 🤔
XcookiexbakerX · 31-35, F
@MartinTheFirst I was 17 when I got with him and let myself get manipulated into what he wanted. I'm where I am now regardless. But I get what you mean most definitely.

 
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