I Take Relationships Seriously

Yes you do. Dump the fucker. He's cheating on you.

Tell him he needs to be positive, take any job available for now and always be making an effort to find work until he succeeds.
If he cares about you, he will make whatever effort necessary

Sounds like he's eyeing one of his female friends

Sorry, but I'd say he's preparing you for the big heave-ho. Eventually he will find an excuse to leave you. He's partially right, you do deserve better than him, but not for material reasons. He has no class or loyalty; he spends his time with your enemies. Run.

DTMFA...dump the mother F#cker already

How does that make you feel though

Does he have low self esteem?

what do you think? ,thats all that counts

He’s getting everying he needs

Why does it matter that his friends are female? Are you worried about that?