I Have a Confession

My ex came to see me recently, and we kinda lost control for a few hours. Problem is she tells me she has a boyfriend afterwards! I feel bad, but I don't feel guilty because I genuinely didn't know. Do you think I should do anything about this, or leave it be?
Your thoughts are appreciated thanks

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nojudging · 61-69, M

Leave it be, you didn't know. If anything it's her problem, not yours.

Sinnerwithaheart · 56-60, F

Leave it alone and enjoy the memories.

firefall · 61-69, M

Leave it be - she signalled it was just a one-off* by telling you this. OTOH you have no reason for guilt, I agree, you didnt even know at the time you were deciding.

*assuming it doesn't recur. If it does, then she has some sort of issue you might need to discuss with her.