I Have a Confession

I am not transgender, bi, gay, or anything like that, I am straight and male, so I haven't experience what you are feeling, I may have some other things I feel I need to keep personal from my family but nothing like that, I am sorry for you, but I pray that with time you will find a way to tell just one member of your family, so that you can feel better.
Best of luck and good luck with just getting a haircut that makes you feel more comfortable, I know my barberette would love to help you out if she got the chance, so hopefully you will be able to find someone as kind and understanding as she is to help you out.
I don't know if you will care about any of what I am saying but I hope someone either on here or somewhere else will help you feel better.

I don’t anyone is truly 100% their gender....I mean, I can get quite aggressive at times and, well, not afraid to physically defend myself and that’s typical of males, right?

Or so they so......

.....and that’s the operative phrase....’so they say’....

Being transgender.....being gay....being lesbian....being a tomboy.....these are just name tags....you’ll need to have a look at yourself quite deeply to find who you are and what you represent....

It can be hurtful when parents don’t live up to YOUR expectations (think of it that way!), but in the end that will only make you stronger....

I think you need a little bit of freedom.....to move out, be out of the circle of family....and to truly find yourself....

I wish you well...

Martika xx

When you say that you should have been born a male, that needs a bit more than feelings, don't ya think? >_>

I think birth isn't something you control. You have to just live with it and try your best to use your body to its best

Maybe you're a tomboy--not that there'd be anything wrong with you being transgendered or anything?

Either way, you're okay with me. 🤗

FWIW, having a penis is sometimes not what it's cracked up to be.

Yeah, but you can't hide from your family for the rest of your life or being locked in a "situation" that feels fake to you.

First of all bravo to you for sharing your feelings, you’re 100% valid no matter what your family of origin may say.

You can feel that way and you shouldn't' feel ashamed, but it's not true - you're female, and you have plenty of reasons to be proud of that.

if there really is only one life for us on this world.

you should be happy living it.

pretending to be something your not will just make it feel shallow.