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When notice people you used to interact with avoiding you

And you wonder what you did or said to cause it.
Keepitsimple · 51-55, F
I know why...I’m not gonna be their hoochie mama and I said it.
Eddiesolds · 61-69, M
@Keepitsimple Thankyou for this compliment.Ill try not to. I'll go talk to my boss right now about this.lol! Have a nice day there! God morning to you!☕ I tried to make a picture with the cream but it didnt work.🙂☀️🤗
Keepitsimple · 51-55, F
You’re so sweet Eddie...the world isn’t ready for you! 🤗@Eddiesolds
Eddiesolds · 61-69, M
@Keepitsimple Gosh this is so beautiful! Thankyou so much!🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🙂
iamelijah · 26-30, M
I used to care but not anymore. I got bad reputation everywhere I go.

This I noticed from my teammate. He used to be my mentor, coaching me but few months he is being cold to me includes his cousin. He even barely read my message on facebook even though he was online.


Second, my family have bad blood with one or two neighbors in my neighborhood. I used to sad they never want to be friends with me but now I know why. I never care.

People just want to cancel you or ruined you because their envious on you.
iamelijah · 26-30, M
@BlueVeins I am not a fashionista.
BlueVeins · 22-25
@iamelijah on a more serious note, it kinda sounds like they just reject you for being different and that's just weak as hell on their part.
iamelijah · 26-30, M
@BlueVeins The sad part is this is how the society lives. I cannot change them. I gotta roll or die. 🤷🏻‍♀️
SW-User
It happened with people I used to drink with. I know the reason there.
Happened with people I used to share my misery with. I stopped resonating with them and turned my energy elsewhere, and we had nothing more to talk about.
It happened with people who believed shit talkers.
It’s happened when my negative moments became too much.
Sometimes it’s because I turn out to be too boring or eventually annoying. 🤷🏻‍♀️

I usually know the reasons. It’s okay.
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@SW-User Awwww At least you are directing it for the better
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@SW-User Yeah. I still miss some of those people, but I guess it’s inevitable for everyone to drift apart.
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I admit I do this to people.
Mostly after the whole assault thing I came out with
I dunno.I feel weird around people and afraid they will treat me differently.
For the most part its all in my head though.

Other times I just being a passive aggresive hoe.
So maybe they being the second?
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@SW-User I wonder if I do this without noticing and they kind of react in kind?
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@SW-User Could be, especially if they're going through a rough time or sensitive they can def pic up on behavior changes like that and might just be mimicking.
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So I am not the only one all these amazing things happen to!
Lol.
I even see people who used to like me have me blocked and their whole groups of friends avoiding me like I got cooties or something.🥺
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@SW-User It's really gets me thinking. Both online and rl. Like, I want closure but I don't want to intrude also
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@SW-User I get it. It can make us feel unsettled. I'd not intrude either, because a lot of the times people can end up gaslighting us with something like this. (At least I've seen it happen before with me).
I don't know why it happens. People seem to be quite fickle, especially online. In real, lately people are also off kilter.
Starsandfire · 31-35, F
It's hard when there's no real reason and you thought you were close to that person but there's nothing to be done really.
Rhonda · F
I was friends with a "single" man on EP for 2 years. Then one day I didn't hear from him and his account was cancelled. About a month later I received a PM from him (he'd created another account) saying his WIFE had read our messages as he hadn't logged out. He promised her he'd never contact me again. I blocked him without replying.
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@Rhonda That's really bad
Rhonda · F
@SW-User yes as we were quite close and he lied all along or perhaps lied to end the friendship we had. I did Google his username and it came up on a few adults only sites.
In your case, I bet they just can't get through the crowd!
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@Mamapolo2016 hahahahaha My inbox does need some cleaning
Nobody00 · F
Yes, I do. But then l leave it alone cause you can’t always figure out people
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AnthroKenji · 36-40, M
I told one person I was just getting over my last relationship and taking the year to reflect on what happened...


She stopped texting everyday after that.
Unlearn · 41-45, M
Maybe they know what you did last summer...
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@Unlearn Watching Tiger King
Yes. I have been there in real life too.
I do. Their loss. Life goes on.
ravenhill · M
i honestly don't care either way.
DeluxedEdition · 26-30, F
idgaf their loss🤷‍♀️
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Wish I knew
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That hasn't happened to me on here, yet.

It has in my life though and I just figure that they aren't who I thought they were and aren't worth my time anyway.
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@SW-User It's so much more confusing IRL. Like, at least online you can get a sense of things
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@SW-User Yeah, I can see how it would be easier to make sense of online. When it's a real life friend you've known for years, it can be pretty strange.
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@SW-User Not just here but in rl too
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@TheRascallyOne hahahaha I'm not that direct, really

 
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