I Am Married
This epiphany came to me, shortly before joining SW and you may quote me: "Sometimes, you just don't get everything you want in a marriage."
No one tells you that when you say, I DO. You have expectations that you assume will be met. But people change, and then years go by, and you realize what is missing. You are faced with the ultimate relationship test. And you find yourself weighing the pros and cons, and asking yourself, can you live without that missing marital piece, accept your fate, and merely appreciate all the rest of the good that remains in your marriage. Do I stay or do I go? It's the ultimate commitment question.
I choose to stay, release my expectations, calm my frustrations, and redirect my energies to more positive things that bring me joy and happiness. It's a challenge everyday. The struggle is real. But at the end of the day, the relationship is still worth it, and I am at peace, accepting this little bit of wisdom. I hope it helps you too. 💖
No one tells you that when you say, I DO. You have expectations that you assume will be met. But people change, and then years go by, and you realize what is missing. You are faced with the ultimate relationship test. And you find yourself weighing the pros and cons, and asking yourself, can you live without that missing marital piece, accept your fate, and merely appreciate all the rest of the good that remains in your marriage. Do I stay or do I go? It's the ultimate commitment question.
I choose to stay, release my expectations, calm my frustrations, and redirect my energies to more positive things that bring me joy and happiness. It's a challenge everyday. The struggle is real. But at the end of the day, the relationship is still worth it, and I am at peace, accepting this little bit of wisdom. I hope it helps you too. 💖