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Domorsub26-30, F
could be anything maybe wants your moms ok to use you
Maram22-25, F
What you meaning?
Domorsub26-30, F
your under 18 can not say more
Maram22-25, F
Thank you

Kalina31-35, F
I would let your mum having her time with him, the reason why she doesn't let you be near is probably a good reason...after-all, you can't be always around - not in a bad way,..but if she want to have a secret let her have....one day also you will have a ''secret'' or you wouldn't like to be interrupt by her.

And about your wish,...let them be what they are, maybe she doesn't want that or i don't know,...they sure know what is best for them.

PS:...does his wife ever come with him?
Maram22-25, F
@Waxfoot: what you meaning?
Reboot15322-25, M
@Maram: Wasfoot is talking about sex. They're probably having sex together.
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TeresaRudolph7151-55, F
It's hard to say. You can't really know unless either they tell you or you listen in without them knowing. But your mom may be protecting you by keeping it from you.

Also, since he is married, I would hope that there isn't something more going on between them, because when one or both people involved are married to someone else, the outcome is almost never good.

Best of luck to you, and I hope that everything works out okay for you and your mom.
Maram22-25, F
Thank you so much
But what the hard to say?
My mom love me so much but she is strict
So, she won't tell me and I can't spy on them
TeresaRudolph7151-55, F
What I meant by that was it's hard to say what they are talking about, what their secret might be.

I know how hard it can be to live with strict parents. I hope your mom continues to be loving toward you.

I guess you just have to wait and see what happens, and in the meantime remember to live your own life to the fullest and try not to worry too much about them. I know that's easier said than done, when you love your mom so much. But you have to take care of yourself first.

If it's something life-changing, or important, that's happening, you'll know eventually.

Best wishes.
Maram22-25, F
Thank you very much
She loves me
And nothing life-changed

But I just want stay with them whole time when he come to vidit us
Typicalpisces41-45, F
Honey, sometimes people need to have secrets. I think you should try not to focus on things you don't know, instead of speculating, why don't you talk to your mom and tell her how you feel? You never know... She could fill you in on what they've been talking about.
Typicalpisces41-45, F
From what you are saying, it seems to me that you having feelings that are uncomfortable for you, and you believe the distressing feelings will be alleviated once you know what this man and your mother are keeping from you... Seems logical, since the unwanted feelings are being caused by the secrecy, once you know what the secret is, the unwanted feelings disappear.

Looks like you've reached a dead end. Since the obvious solution is not feasible, perhaps it would make more sense to find another solution to your problem, instead of creating another problem.

Not knowing why, and for what, your mother needs a private moment... Doesn't have to be a problem, if you explain to your mother how you feel, maybe she can put your mind at ease, without sharing with you her reason for needing privacy
Maram22-25, F
when he come again I'll explain to my mom that I want to stay with them all the time as I had previously stayed with them
SW-User
@Maram plz tell me
DemiJ51-55, F
You probably won't until one of them tell you. It should be your Mom. You can go to her and ask directly what's going on. She should tell you. And she can't marry the close family friend, so don't worry about that.
Maram22-25, F
Think you very much
Sapio46-50, M
It is difficult to figure out exactly what their secret is. It might be very true that he has feelings for your mother and has had them for quite some time. Maybe now that closeness is blossoming and your mom is keeping it from you. Because, seeing as he was a friend of your father, she is worried what you will think of her.
Maram22-25, F
It's since more than 6 month
But she doesn't gave any answer
RoroAvani36-40, F
@Maram: As I told you previously. He seems to take good care of her. So she will not tell you the secret. She wants her alone. 馃槅馃槅
Maram22-25, F
@Avani87: 馃槨
richa69love36-40, F
How did he behave with you?
MrsPeterEvans31-35, F
@Maram a father punishes his daughter
Maram22-25, F
@MrsPeterEvans but I didn't do anything bad
MrsPeterEvans31-35, F
@Maram ok I just meant if he was like a father he would punish you if you did
Gwapa36-40, F
Tell you what.. the people here including myself have no idea what they've been talking about. Perhaps its best to ask your mom?
Maram22-25, F
I asked her
She did't gave answer
Just said nothing there
TamAngelF
Sorry about your Father passing. They could be discussing lots of things. You didn't even bring up money, how is the money situation?
Maram22-25, F
@TamAngel: 馃槉 I study at school, another two years at school before I go to college
TamAngelF
@Maram: Okay sweetie. In 2 years, your Mom is going to be quite alone. It's been 2 years already, and even though you're her daughter, she might yearn for companionship. Companionship and friendship doesn't necessarily involve hanky panky btw.
Maram22-25, F
@TamAngel: thank you
I love my mom so much
And She love me so much too
I'm her only daughter
I'm sure she's tired and working for me and for my future
she is for me mother, father, brother and sister

Thank you so much again TamAngel
RoroAvani36-40, F
What happened?
Did you spy on them?
Did you see them having sex?
Maram22-25, F
I guess I knew their secret 馃槍
americanmegF
Hope you get what you want and he becomes a good dad
Maram22-25, F
Thank you
MrAverage196561-69, M
You can't but be patient you will find out in time
Miram31-35, F
You should express your fears to your mother, that you don't want her to get involved with anyone who won't put her first. And that you are worried about what is going on between them two.
Maram22-25, F
@Darkcosmos: Right. I must be brave enough to express my fears.
SW-User
thats is bad of him to cheat another family
SW-User
@TeresaRudolph71: then he's cheating another woman
TeresaRudolph7151-55, F
@here2bhappy: If he and her mom are having an affair, then yes. And that is very wrong.
Maram22-25, F
Yes, you are both right
They are very close
Babydew46-50, F
Wait until they explain things to you. Waiting may be hard but I believe they will talk to you
Maram22-25, F
thank you
But I think I must tell her about my fears.
ticklerguyM
maybe making plans to be with the 2 of you?
Maram22-25, F
Do you mean he want marry my mom?
But he is married
ticklerguyM
@Maram: but maybe he wishes to be with her
Maram22-25, F
@ticklerguy: I wish
But he is married
Krazykatie31-35, F
Sounds like they have gotten very "close". Talk to your mom. Or try talking to him.
Maram22-25, F
Thank you
I'll try talk with my mom
Maram22-25, F
I thank everyone for their responses and comments
and I respect all opinions and expectations
and also I thank all those sent private responses

Many of the opinions said that I should not interfere with things that do not concern me
I agree with them
and Some said they may have fun together
This also does not concern me
But there is one thing that worries me
if they have fun in my father's bed
I can not accept it ever
Valerian100+, M
They are either having sex or they are planning for him to have sex with you after her divorce his wife... An arranged Marriage, you and Mom get taken care of always!

It's sex. . Nothing more.
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Maram22-25, F
because I'm still 16 and he is 44, a big difference in age
then my mom doesn't allow him thinking about that till
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Jackintex56-60, M
It could be they have their own secret now
Maram22-25, F
I would want know that secret
Rockstar136-40, M
He likes your mom
Maram22-25, F
Yes, I told that
He takes care of us alway
RoroAvani36-40, F
@Maram: no, he takes care of your mom very much.
He takes care of her needs
And maybe soon he will takes care of your needs too
pampersmom1126-30, F
How it going now
Maram22-25, F
everything is ok
tomtracy43841-45, M
Hope it works out
SW-User
Sorry you lost your father so young
You should ask your mom what they talk about if it is making you stressed
Maram22-25, F
Thank you
SW-User
You are welcome hope your ok
SW-User
Busy day?
ncabba70-79, M
Best advise? Simply ask your Mom. What she says, or doesn't say, will tell you a lot more than you know now.
Maram22-25, F
Thank you for reply.
Lollita31-35, F
You can ask your mum, maybe she will tell you something.
Maram22-25, F
I asked her
She did't gave answer
Just said nothing there
Lollita31-35, F
Hmm. Maybe there is really nothing. Or maybe she just need time and she will talk about it with you when she will be prepared.
Maram22-25, F
Impossible there is nothing
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Maram22-25, F
Yes, that is happening
AngelKrish26-30, M
Planning for your wedding,? 馃憖
Maram22-25, F
no
AngelKrish26-30, M
@Maramthen it is mysterious 馃暤
girlscumfirst51-55, M
He's knobbing your mom
Maram22-25, F
knobbing??
What's you meaning?
Valerian100+, M
@Maram sex
Maram22-25, F
@Valerian 馃槗
JimboUk31-35, M
In the end of the day, all we have is family
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DunningKruger61-69, M
Ask your mom.
Maram22-25, F
She doesn't gave me a answer
olderguy201670-79, M
leave it
Maram22-25, F
ok
Zoe8931-35, F
you just don't get it, he wants t fuck a 16 year old and has persuading your mom, watch out he will be in your bedroom one night and force you while your mom turns a blind eye!!!!!!
Maram22-25, F
That is impossible. He acts like a father to me
Even if he wanted that貙 My mom is strict. She will expel him if he tries to tell them
FilthyBeastM
Eavesdrop
TheRealDonaldTrumpMaga70-79, M
He'll never leave his wife, Blackmail him! Play hardball.
Maram22-25, F
@TheRealDonaldTrumpMaga: yes you right

But what the opportunity that I can take advantage it in my story
TheRealDonaldTrumpMaga70-79, M
@Maram: He is vulnerable and stupid. Find a way
Maram22-25, F
@TheRealDonaldTrumpMaga: 馃 why?
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Maram22-25, F
@Myahhx: 馃槥 I did
But she doesn't gave a answer
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Maram22-25, F
@Myahhx: 馃槗 ok
Thank you
SannyM
Take help of spy camera
I hope everything will b good... Best of luck
Maram22-25, F
No, I can't
SannyM
I asked abt this....
Zoe8931-35, F
he is probably asking your mom if he can have sex with you lol
Maram22-25, F
impossible
He acts like a father to me
ProfessorPlum70-79, M
He probably has his eye on you.
Maram22-25, F
@ProfessorPlum: on me!!
What he want from me?
americanmegF
Sorry cannot tell
Maram22-25, F
馃
AngelKrish26-30, M
Hmm...become
CID officer 馃暤
SW-User
Maram22-25, F
hi

 
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