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I Love My Mom

My mom has finally been officially diagnosed with an inoperable lung cancer. Luckily, its not too aggressive, and the tumor is not growing at the moment. I did some research on my own because she is refusing chemo, which is the only option according to her doctor
what I found out is cancer feeds on sugar, and a Paleo diet has been shown to do amazing things with cancer patients. It lacks sugar, and is full of veggies. When I proposed it to her she said no at first, because she loves her cookies every night. She did have a change of heart though, and an offer. If i do it with her, she's game. I accepted her offer.

She's still stuck in a wheelchair because of severe arthritis, not the mass on her lower back. She isn't in much pain because of this, it's more like her hip just won't move like she wants it to.

She's been drinking a couple of gallons of cbd water every week, making her feel more "fluid" she says.

For the last 4 months, she's been in assisted living. In this time, she's quit her 30+ year, 2 pack a day smoking habit and she's down to 1 glass of wine/night instead of 1/2 gallon. She's doing remarkable. She's determined and does her excercises religiously. She's so confident in getting around in her wheelchair now too. The kids and I take her all over with us, to get her out of that place and keep her busy. We've planted tons of flowers at her house, anticipating her home coming.

The best news is, because of all her hard work, she's going home tomorrow. She wants to be back in her house, with her things. The people at the facility are, according to her, "not her people, at least not yet", is how she puts it. She's sharp as a tack and is never one to hold back her opinion or comments.

She's my mom, all 97 pounds of her. I'm so proud of her and mostly I love spending time with her. I couldn't have reunited with her at a more perfect time, for the both of us. 鈾ワ笍
sighmeupforthat46-50, M
She needs another dr.


Immunotherapy is another option and works better than chemo.
DirtyBird56-60, F
@sighmeupforthat I understand what you're saying. My stepdad passed away after being treated for cancer, and she took care of him. She's simply refused any kind of medical intervention. She is fine living the life she has left, without any treatment. She's adamant. I've proposed getting her to a big city with better medical care, and I get a firm no.
I've had to accept this too, because she's stubborn like I've never seen stubborn before.
Thank you for your comment.
@DirtyBird Love (((her))) on behalf of all of us.
DirtyBird56-60, F
@sspec
I will, for sure. She's easy to love. :)
Awww... She's truly amazing. Kudos to her for stopping smoking after 30+ yrs!!! 馃槼馃憦 馃憦 That's not easy...
Congratulations 馃帄 ... I'm so happy she's going bk home now. 馃 so happy for you both too. The timing couldn't be more perfect. 馃槂
@DirtyBird That's becoz it's time to reap what you've sowed. All these years you were doing what was right and thinking why it's happening to you... And how the karmic cycle is over.. So you'll reap whatever you've sown... Those who did good will get good days... 馃 馃槝
DirtyBird56-60, F
@Vivaci I believe this too. It's hard for me to think about or anticipate karmic bonus for myself though. But, I will quietly keep moving forward and try not to think about it! Lol
It would be incredible and I would be so grateful. 馃槍
@DirtyBird Amen. 馃 馃槝
With you and her amazing grandkids by her side every now & then, am sure she'll be able to live through it all.

Very few get the opportunity to take care of their Oldies in their trying times. Friend, You are blessed. 馃憤
DirtyBird56-60, F
@sspec I know I am Ss. We didn't talk for almost 20 years, so to have this opportunity is a blessing I don't take for granted. Seeing her with my kids is so beautiful, it makes me cry all the time.
I appreciate our similarities now too.
I love her so much. 鈾ワ笍
Thank you for asking about her earlier.
I am blessed to have you as well Ss. 馃懎馃尣
@DirtyBird :) Life has been kind to all of us in its own little ways, dear. 馃 am relieved to find that you got some of your share of the same.

And we love you for loving her & loving yourself.

馃懎
Noble56-60, M
Cancer Sucks!

All my best to your mother. If she鈥檚 anything like you, I imagine she鈥檒l conquer and forge on. Much love!
DirtyBird56-60, F
@Noble 馃 My friend.
I love you, so friggin much! 鈾ワ笍鈾ワ笍
Noble56-60, M
You鈥檙e amazing friend! @DirtyBird
GJOFJ361-69, M
Wishing you all the very best
DirtyBird56-60, F
@GJOFJ3 Things are going better then expected at the moment. Thank you very much.
GJOFJ361-69, M
@DirtyBird that is good.
CoppercoilM
Wow.. great story.
DirtyBird56-60, F
@Coppercoil Thank you Copper!! 馃槉鈾ワ笍
MethDozerM
Sorry to hear about the cancer but glad your mom is doing okay considering.
DirtyBird56-60, F
@MethDozer she's so badass! She would appreciate being called this. She's so small and yet so strong. I adore her.
She's happy, and that's my only goal right now. Thanks you.

 
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