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I Am Insecure

I really wish I wasn't, I just feel as if my partner isn't being honest with me I'm always going to come second to him when it comes to his female friend who just happened to pop outta nowhere into his life and his inboxes this year, he never mentioned her or anything and it's almost been a year I've been with him. I keep thinking he spent a few days with her this past mother's day when he was supposed to be with his family in the city to be with his brother who had passed away this weekend, r.i.p and I haven't heard from him since he left on Saturday , I've been here waiting on him to text me back he said he would text me and send pics but i havent heard from him, yet! I've been keeping his son since he been away, I really hope he didn't spend a few days with her.

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ChatterinSeuss · 61-69, M

Do you trust him ? that should be the question to ask yourself,, and give him time to grieve.. Many people grieve differently and maybe he needs some time.. If he trusts you with his son,, then you know he will come to you...

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ChatterinSeuss · 61-69, M

@Jax316 I was married 22 years, and I trusted her with my children, I never doubted her.. I am now widowed and my children are grown and married... You have to have a little faith in the relationship.. I know trusting is hard. Have some faith in him.. I had plenty of female friends and still do,, it doesn't mean I was out having sex with any of them.. I am bisexual since age 10 and I never once cheated on my wife.. Now that she has passed, I want to meet as many people and enjoy the rest of my life in peace.. I know one day I may meet the right person again,, but I will not rush it.. Let him grieve his brothers death,, and don't worry yourself sick..

Jax316 · F

@ChatterinSeuss Okay, thanks for that. I will try my best not to think on this topic as much for now. Can I pm you?

ChatterinSeuss · 61-69, M

@Jax316 you can pm me anytime I am not one to hide

marcusaurelius

Probably an ex or someone he's cheating with

People don't pop outta nowhere

Jax316 · F

@marcusaurelius I forgot to mention, she is his ex
They dated when they were teenagers. But I can see that he loves her more than he loves me. He recently blocked me on fb this month because I kept asking him about his ugly texts I seen back in March. Smh, I couldn't even have a civil convention about it without him getting angry.

marcusaurelius

@Jax316 cheating.

Maybe he hasn't yet cheated but he will. Its obvious

SW-User

@Jax316 wow if he is like that leave he is not worth feeling 💔 over you deserve so much more love and attention and faithfulness

mrmoose · 70-79, M

NEVER settle to be second, never

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mrmoose · 70-79, M

@Jax316 i understand, but i was second my whole life, and it was very bad, always ended badly

Jax316 · F

☹ ik what u mean. But, he tells me that he loves me and that I'm polluting my own mind thinking like this, that there's something between him and her. Idk if he's right? Should I just leave it and let it be?

mrmoose · 70-79, M

@Jax316 if you feel like second, you are

SW-User

Aww wow I hope not as well You are really lovely take care

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