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I Need to Overcome a Bad Friendship

This happened after the party, when she was talking to me just this morning, and what she said was rather hurtful. I sometimes feel a little insecure about myself, and I'm just getting over that stuff, and I wore this outfit to her party, of course my partner loved it and his brother even called me elegant, so it wasn't such a bad pick.
She said that the outfit I wore was rather plain, but the choker was great.... She didn't even hesitate, like she couldn't decipher that what she was saying was very hurtful and not even needed... I don't know, I've got one more event that I'm going with her, and then afterwards, I think I'll just stop talking to her, because everything she says about me or others, is always negativity, and it hurts.

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SW-User

Negativity breeds negativity. You don't need people like this in your life. Friends make you feel good about yourself, never bad. Honesty and constructive criticism are not without benefit, but by the sound of it, what your "friend" is doing and saying , is neither honest, or constructive.

Surround yourself with positive people, and positive energy, for positive results.

papparrazzi · 26-30, F

@SW-User I don't want to sound mean, but it's affecting me deeply because she's meant to be close to me, but I understand, and thank you

SW-User

@papparrazzi not mean at all. I was sticking my nose where it didn't belong, and jumping to conclusions I never should have. If anything, I should appologize for my rudeness. I hope everything works out for you and your friend. That's all I should have said in the first place, if anything at all.

Ian123 · 61-69, M

She is jealous of you I expect. Just let her go you dont need that in your life. Hope things go better 🌺

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