Never unappreciative of the reactions i cause!

I'm old fashioned in a lot of ways I have been told by friends, but I think I'm just honest enough to appreciate a wolf whistle, a little flirting, the chemical reactions I might cause with others, male and female. My biological role is never subjugated by any feminist rhetoric of a cause that has kinda been blurred by the reactionary few who have more than an axe to grind!

My grandmother sat me down once, just before I hit thirteen, and she gave me the facts of life as she saw them, and she had enjoyed a long and fruitful relationship and marriage with my grandfather. She said, we women are like flowers growing wild in the field, and men look to come pick a flower that will last to take home to Mama, and so our role is twofold, beauty and adaptability!

I haven't heard anything as wise as this and other things my Nona said to me, and so this and all she gave me of her experience of life are my values. I have put my own twist on some things, like I do so love to look sexy, so I like lace and silk and all those things you hear the feminists saying are a part of the patriarchy because they keep women isolated on their pedestal men give us. And I say I want to be that wild flower in the field!