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My boyfriend actually wanted me to be pregnant?!

I have an IUD. So when I started having strong pregnancy symptoms and people starting asking if I was I was kind of scared. I took a test and to my relief it was negative, but when I told my boyfriend it was negative he gave me the opposite response of what I was expecting.

What?!


Update: In between his question I called him and we talked for about an hour. I had to get off the phone to go take the test.

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ChiyoSKL · 31-35, F
@DaddyMentor Yeah. I guess he wants one, but he never said anything to me.
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ChiyoSKL · 31-35, F
@DaddyMentor we have 3 kids. 2 are from his previous relationship and the mother moved far away so he never gets to see them. Then I have one from my previous marriage.
GerOttman · 61-69, M
What's your position on this? Do you want a baby? What your response have been to a positive result?
ChiyoSKL · 31-35, F
@GerOttman I was kind of on the fence. I'd have liked to have had a positive pregnancy experience as my one and only time was terrible. I wouldn't mind having one with somebody I really love, but I do like having some alone time without a kid. (When my son is at his dad its just us to do whatever we want). I kind of left it up to him. I asked if he wanted me to get the IUD taken out and he said no even though he was super giddy last night and hasn't talked to me since early this morning so I'm a bit confused.
GerOttman · 61-69, M
@ChiyoSKL You both probably need time to process the situation and see how you really feel when you have a little perspective. In a week or a month or whatever you may have a good clear sense of what you want.
He wants to hear you call him Daddy

But for real, that's a sweet first message
LAlexV · M
Been there. We get baby fever too sometimes.
Mordi · 31-35, M
You are saying negative to getting sleep.
ChiyoSKL · 31-35, F
@Mordi No I'm not. I called him after he sent that text about sleep and hung up with him to take the test. That was his response.
Mordi · 31-35, M
Oh. Maybe he is obsessed with babies. 🤷🏼‍♂️
SW-User
Tears of relief?

Or maybe he wanted a kid
ChiyoSKL · 31-35, F
@SW-User he was kind of excited last night and put his hand on my stomach which he never does. I just wasn't expecting it.
SW-User
@ChiyoSKL you're starting to get on a bit. Maybe he's at the point where he's looking to settle down.
DownTheStreet · 51-55, M
I think he loves you

 
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