Are people suppose ot be brutally blunt about weight loss?

She noticed that I'm getting bigger in my legs and it isn't healthy. She flat out told me, "Why are you getting so big? Your legs and ass are getting bigger! I can tell you put on weight.What have you been eating? Tell me so I can help you." I was embarassed. I am 234lbs plus I'm 5'10. I've been trying to lose weight but it's so hard. She said it in front of my cousins. I asked her what she though about my picture when I showed her. She said, "To put it bluntly, tou look so big in this picture." I was hoping she said I look beautiful. She said that I always look beautiful and she don't need to tell me that and she said I could lose some weight. I know I do, but that hurts.
Even my doctor flat out told me that I need to lose weight and I'm getting close to half of 300lbs. Don't listen to the others because being tall isn't an excuse to be this weight. You still need to be healthy and take care of yourself. You aunt has a point and she cares." I said, "I think I do need to lose weight but big people are normal nowadays and-" she cut me out and shoot at me back saying, "That's because they're fat, obese or overweight. Stop making excuses. If you wanna end up fatter with diabetes, theb that's your choices otherwise lay off the junk good and start eating healthier." I couldn't say anything because she roasted me back so quickly. I said, "Thank you." And walked out cast. My doctor is VERY strick and the in your face doctor. She is BLUNT when it comes to this.
My family is brutally honest.