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I Think Cheating Is Wrong

It's never the woman's fault why a man strays she didn't make a commitment in a marriage, he did. She has nothing to lose he does. So start blaming the man not the other woman. Ok
LaFemmeAmelie · 31-35, F
as someone that has been with a married guy, there is a burden on me as well because i willingly and knowingly got with a married person. so i take responsibility for my own actions, just as he has to take responsibility for his. in a situation like that, there are no innocent parties, not even the wife--usually. things don't happen in a vacuum.
SlightedSmile · 51-55, M
I was pursued once very heavily by a married woman. It is not always the man.
kayoshin · 36-40, M
Not sure if woman hating trollbait or just really closed way of thinking.
sarahhummer · 41-45, F
I'm not a troll and not perfect either. I have been w/ married men and I enjoyed it. At the moment I'm not in a relationship w/ anyone. I just find it exciting to be w/ a married man but if he wants to stray then I'll go for it. But he has to make the first move.
kayoshin · 36-40, M
@sarahhummer: It still doesnt mean it's the man alone to blame. If you haven't been decieved into believing he is unmarried you are as guilty as he is. If you like what you are doing then do it but dont try to wash your conscience cause things are what they are. You are both at fault. No big deal.
Longlegs2014 · 61-69, M
LOL -- yeah, right...sure....you are absolutely right. There are no married women screwing around with married men. It is only the single ones....

This sounds like a load of _________ and rationalization.

BTW - my ex-wife was a serial cheater when I was away on business trips. She was the one catting around, not me -- although many have told me that I should have since she was. Silly me.
Wow. Nice way of completely ducking all responsibility. And you clearly have never read the standard wedding vows most people recite so yes the woman does make a commitment but this seems more about perpetuating a stereotype then anything. I suppose all the women on Ashley Madison were forced to join by their husbands?
Livingwell · 61-69, M
Both people commit in a marriage. This kind of thinking leads to one side thinking they don't have to try anymore. And that leads to wandering on the other side. They didn't marry for a room mate and leech. I'd advise reading up on your vowels again.
sarahhummer · 41-45, F
I'm not married

 
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