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I Am Native American (cherokee)

I am only a 1/4 Cherokee though. Growing up though I didn't even know until I was an older teenager. It is on my dads side of the family and he never talked about it. I made the comment once that when I tanned in the summer that I looked a little "native" and my grandmother said to me that is because your grandfather was Indian, it's in our family.
I said this to my dad a couple days later and he got very upset and told me my grandmother was a fruitcake. Yet it got me researching the history and taking a closer look at the photos and time and again I could see it, especially in my grandfather. I pointed this out to my dad and he just shook his head.
To this day that side of the family doesn't talk about it. I on my own studied the history of the Cherokee and I am not embarrassed or ashamed to talk about it. I may only have a small amount in it, but that's okay. I think it just adds another interesting element to who I am. :)
Serenitree · F
When my youngest daughter was 4 years old, she had a Native Canadian friend, the same age, named Roy. She adored him and loved the shade of his skin. She also loved all the native art and collectibles in his home. She asked me, one day, when I picked her up from his home, Mommy, if I get a good enough tan, can I be barefoot like Roy? I didn't understand why she needed a tan to go barefoot. The next time I spoke to his farther he told me that they were Bearfoot First Nation. Not barefoot.

I had to tell her that she would never be Bearfoot, no matter how dark she tanned, but she could buy some art and collectibles from the reserve, next time Roy and his family took her out there. I gave Roy's dad $50.00 and asked him to take her shopping. He refused the money but bought her a few items that she admired, including a pair of beaded moccasins. She was thrilled.
EnigmaticGeek · 61-69, M
@Serenitree: I did--and you just proved how intelligent you are by reading it between the lines, so to speak. I didn't really think about hiding the complement.

The world deserves to know what a wonderful mother you are. 😊 Your children are very lucky to have you--and your man, if you have one of those creatures. LOL
ravenwind43 · 51-55, F
@Serenitree: That is a very cool story, thank you for sharing it. What a great memory for you and your daughter:D
Serenitree · F
@ravenwind43: she's 42 now. She was friends with Roy for two years. She still thinks of him as her best friend, even though we moved and she never saw him again. 😃

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Heartlander · 80-89, M
Your dad probably grew up in the 50's and 60's when western or cowboy-indian movies were popular and where "the only good indians were dead indians". As a kid, I imagine his choices were to either pretend that he wasn't or get teased and/or beaten up by other kids.

Native Americans were depicted as savages, or alcoholics, or go-fers with funny hats. Tonto was maybe the lone exception, but much of that was because he was the fateful servant of the Lone Ranger. Also, he was tall, spoke clearly, was brave, and didn't drink or hang round with bad company. Had Tonto been short and overweight, or had he occasionally overindulged in wine or women, it's unlikely that he would have been cast as the exception :)

Per tales from the old timers, there was a bit of an ethnic purge in the US in the late teens and early 20's. Until then, there were still French, Spanish, German and everything-else speaking communities and neighborhoods in the US. And suddenly there was like a big move to English only where English was force-fed to the kids and there was a sense of shame levied on those stuck in non-English speaking cultures. The western movies of the 30's, 40's and 50's probably fed off the white-English speaking. In reality much of the old wild west was actually Spanish speaking and blended assorted creole heritage.

The only thing we can now do about deceased parents is to understand and be compassionate about what they had to endure, and try to make for a more considerate and compassionate America as we move forward. Be proud of his having survived whatever horrors he experienced. You are the living proof of his triumph over the adversities.
ravenwind43 · 51-55, F
Good insight as always and I think you are on the right track. He was who he was in all his flaws as we are all and (my grandmother was a nut lol) but still right on her point. :)
Heartlander · 80-89, M
Haaa ... the flaw thing :) Yea .... I'm reminded of a horrible employee at an office supply store where I once did business. Dealing with her was like pulling teeth. They were providing specialty copy services for us and every time we had a project she acted like our business was a pain in the ass.

One day I went there with a copy-job and she wasn't there. The owner himself was working the desk. Wow. What a great opportunity to complain about his horrible clerk that was trying to drive his business away.

As I started to mention her name the owner broke into tears and told me that she had died just the day before. A long bout with cancer and she had worked until the day she died. She was his most loyal and devoted employee, and a wonderful person even when in excruciating pain.

Thank God I had not gotten beyond her name and that I hadn't gotten to the complaint part. Suddenly it was easy to agree with him about how she was such a wonderful person. I was just about to become a horrible, obnoxious jerk and was miraculously saved by my guardian angel.
ravenwind43 · 51-55, F
Wow what a story, and it really does make you think, and wonder how much our perceptions really color a situation.
Livingwell · 61-69, M
Interesting. I recently discovered that i am part native American as well but until recently no one spoke about it. Only the cousins. We thought we were Mexican. A test by Ancestry.com confirmed but i don't know which nation yet. I'm also German and Irish. Quite the mix. 😊
ravenwind43 · 51-55, F
Thanks. I'm just started to get into the tenses and adjectives, it's getting a little tougher than: Yo como arroz:) lol
Heartlander · 80-89, M
@Living-wellish: one of the downstream consequences of the "shaming" of kids speaking other than English was that many grew up and intentionally shielded their own children from their native language so as to save them from the "shame" and discrimination they had experienced growing up. This still goes on today ... in my own extended family.
Atrevido1 · 61-69, M
@Livingwell anyone from Mexico with meztizo characteristics has native DNA. This is no mystery. This is why the Ancestry.com commercials are so ridiculous. If your roots are in Mexico or you are 'latino'. I can tell you right now you are going to have native DNA, Iberian peninsula(spanish), north african(the moors)
And if your family is from northern mexico, German and Irish. You may even get Western african. Dont waste your money. Don't use it as an excuse not to be a proud Mexican, or American, or Salvadoran. Reading a little bit of history will show you Mexican, like American is a nationality comprised of many races. Not a race
Oster1 · M
Very nice story, about you. And our heritage has a lot to do with shaping our lives. My Mother is French. We all, came from somewhere and that gene pool, makes us more stronger and able to survive and prosper:)
ravenwind43 · 51-55, F
Nicely said!:)
Serenitree · F
Yes. We should all be proud of our total heritage. My mom was 7/8 English and 1/8 Irish. She was very proud of that. That makes me 1/16 Irish and my kids 1/32 Irish. I tell my kids to be proud too.

Dec. 1/16
10:26 pm
SW-User
I'm 1/4 Cherokee as well. My grandfather on my mother's side was Cherokee. I also have Irish and Scottish ancestors.
ravenwind43 · 51-55, F
Thanks for sharing. I have a bit Scottish also on my moms side:)
SW-User
@ravenwind43: I'm a little splash of this and that I guess. It makes me smile filling paperwork out and marking "other" as race.
ravenwind43 · 51-55, F
LOL keep em guessing?:)
samueltyler2 · 80-89, M
Good for you. The Native Americans suffered a horrible hollocast"
EnigmaticGeek · 61-69, M
@ravenwind43: Sounds like you're in NJ or NY. LOL

There shouldn't be any regulatory requirement other than maybe to use a qualified electrician and possibly a roofing contractor to help with rooftop installation so no leaks are caused, etc. Solar should be encouraged (or at least left alone), not hindered as it is in so much of the country.
ravenwind43 · 51-55, F
@EnigmaticGeek: Very good and I agree! Lol
Peaches · F
@EnigmaticGeek: I'm from NC but don't live there now. I miss the fireflies.😞
EnigmaticGeek · 61-69, M
I've wished I had some Naive American blood in me for decades, now. I've always liked their name for God the best of anyone: Great Spirit. I was sangry (sad & angry) when I learned about the Trail of Tears suffered by the Cherokee from the hands of an oppressive Government. I wonder if use of the ancient medical knowledge of Native America tribes could make our healthcare system more effective, less toxic, and less expensive.
ravenwind43 · 51-55, F
I like that as well. I am a big believer in natural medicine. Such as turmeric has been shown to be more effective at treating early stage cancers.You make a good point. :)
SW-User
grandpa on my mom's side was... I think at least half, maybe full choctaw. he wouldn't get a roll card because it was getting something he hadn't earned and being NA was considered to be the worst of all the possible minorities. it's odd how that sorta thing happens.
JustNik · 51-55, F
Never understood why anyone would be ashamed of their heritage. I get some people just aren't interested, but being upset about it strikes me as silly. Why on earth??
ravenwind43 · 51-55, F
I don't understand it either. My dads side of the family had other more pressing issues to be concerned about than that, LOL.
lasergraph · 70-79, M
Cherokee had their own written language and published a newspaper.
My mother-in-law was 1/2. She was a nice lady but you didn't want to piss her off.
Quimliqer · 70-79, M
Wear it with pride, and make sure you share it with all.
ronisme1 · 61-69, M
Iam 1/8 cherokee
ravenwind43 · 51-55, F
Every little bit counts? LOL
LTKISS · 56-60, M
You should be proud of this.
Peaches · F
Yeah, there's a lot my family won't talk about either.🤔I'd love to take a test they have out to see what is in my DNA, or what ever they do?! That Ancestry thing seems to be popular.⭐
Peaches · F
@Heartlander: Oh, it just takes me to MORE links, but I can appreciate what you are saying. That's so sad.💔🥀
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ravenwind43 · 51-55, F
@Peaches: I want to do the Ancestry test too....see what else is lurking lol
ronisme1 · 61-69, M
I am also, welcome
ravenwind43 · 51-55, F
@ronisme1 TY🙂
samueltyler2 · 80-89, M
Care to share the photos with us?
samueltyler2 · 80-89, M
Seemed that way, no problem. I was just curious.
ravenwind43 · 51-55, F
Women who often post selfies for public view so people can comment on them are usually attention seeking and suffering from low self esteem.
samueltyler2 · 80-89, M
I won't argue with you about that.
Degbeme · 70-79, M
Have you done a DNA test through Ancestry?
Zonuss · 41-45, M
Yes you are. A very defined and wholesome Native American
Woman. 😊
ravenwind43 · 51-55, F
@Zonuss A little anyways ...ty:)

 
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