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Come on dear, you're being very hard on yourself, that's all.
PhilDeep · 51-55, M
Low self esteem, really, really tough one to crack, I found.
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
You are being too hard on yourself and just ended an engagement. It’s okay to be alone for awhile.
Don't think like that you deserve to be happy and be in a good relationship just like anyone else
DrWatson · 70-79, M
When I was dating, one characteristic that would turn me off about a woman would be self-loathing. NOT being poor, uneducated, having poor health, etc.

You could be setting yourself up for a self-fulfilling prophecy here.
DearAmbellina2113 · 41-45, F
@DrWatson it is what it is. 🥺
SW-User
Nobody is perfect and you don't see yourself as others do. If you're fresh out of a relationship, it's normal to underestimate yourself for a while. However, if the new guy likes you and this is what you really want, forget about what you *think* you deserve, and go for it.
heavyone2 · 61-69, M
Don't be so hard on yourself , go have a lil fun!
Virgo79 · 61-69, M
I always thought you were pretty😕
Huckleberry42 · 41-45, M
Happy that someone has mutual interest with you. You deserve it
DearAmbellina2113 · 41-45, F
SW-User
confidence in who you are = 90% of a relationship.

STOP putting yourself down

Silly boys rate girls by " dumb, uneducated, I can't have kids, I am not rich, I'm not witty or clever or cute.

Gentlemen look for a kind warm honest loving heart
LookingForTheSummer · 31-35, M
It's all about confidence. Not these things you listed.
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Callaghen · 61-69, M
Well.... any guy would be honored to have you , and if he cared about you as much as he should , your health issues wouldnt matter to him...chin up give the new guy a small chance , go slow , see what happens ....ok im done now, Hi from Canada , beautiful pics too....
IWasCallingYaLarry · 26-30, M
I feel the exact same way about myself, except I'm single is the difference.
DearAmbellina2113 · 41-45, F
@IWasCallingYaLarry I'm single too.
IWasCallingYaLarry · 26-30, M
@DearAmbellina2113 Thought you said you are with a guy right now but not sure why he is into you. I don't get it.
Livingwell · 61-69, M
Stop that! You're a hell of a catch. The last guy held you back.
heavyone2 · 61-69, M
Stop it! The other guy was a "dead beat".... sorry but I think it is true. Get out and have a lil fun, time flies by!
mrh1972 · MVIP
I can appreciate all of those feelings as bbn i have them too.

 
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