Out of curiosity, I went back to a site I used five years ago and searched for my name. There were numerous conversations about me that I hadn't seen because they happened after I left. Although people were nice in their eulogies, they praised things I wasn't expecting praise for. It made me realise that we often don't realise how others see us and our contributions.
I don't know for sure. I say sexy things about myself and then bark when many guys 35-55 hit on me. I guess they didn't read that I'm a lesbian. Some actually think they can convert me.
SW-User
Antisocial and/or boring. I don't think I'm seen as fake, but you never know what people think, especially when you only have their words to read.
A few kind souls might say I was nice. To the vast majority I'd go with boring though. I don't think I'd be the sort anyone would talk about after I was gone.