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How long did it take you to be over your ex spouse?

I'm doing everything and anything I can to not miss him. Its been 2 months. And considering all the abuse he put me through...it isnt exactly the hardest thing but it is still difficult. 🤷
lulaluboo
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SomeMichGuy · M
Well...you got used to him. So now you have to remove all of that from your "typical", even the ok & good parts.

It was a significant relationship. You don't have to be over it on a fixed schedule. And some parts...SOME parts...well, you might come to cherish them forever, if there were some bits of real love there. 😊
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SomeMichGuy · M
@lulaluboo Awwww...it's ok. It's part of the complexity of love and real relationships. You are just feeling all the bits...you will be fine. 😊

But you might need these:
🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗

and maybe one of these
🐶🐕 or these 🐱🐈

but have a nice hot bath 🛀 a hot drink 🍵 some chocolate 🍫
and have a good sleep 🛏🌛

and then wake up tomorrow with a new day & a fresh attitude 🌞
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lulaluboo
@SomeMichGuy aww! Yes I need like all those things! Thanky 🤗🤗🤗
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SomeMichGuy · M
@lulaluboo Well, then please use them as you will.

Sorry he was angry, cruel, & violent...with that, you might want to read up on the Stockholm syndrome... 😣
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Nutshell29 · 26-30, F
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lulaluboo
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quitwhendone · M
@Nutshell29 You are wise beyond your years.
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Magenta · F
@Nutshell29 This!
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PhilDeep · 51-55, M
I think year to 18 months easily if it was a genuine long-term relationship.
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SWisGoingWoke · M
@PhilDeep depends on the spouse.
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TheBlackPowerRanger
Attachment is hard to overcone, even to messed up people sometimes
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lulaluboo
@TheBlackPowerRanger can be very. Yes. Thank you for acknowledging.
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Aliveshock
It will always affect if you truly loved them.
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Magenta · F
@Aliveshock Precisely. Unless it was just some passing fancy or infatuation.
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SW-User
For a toxic relationship it can take years, but that doesn't mean that you'll feel bad for years. You can close those gaps in your life in a matter of months. It's just the residual bad dreams and occasional slumps that take longer to fully get over.
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SWisGoingWoke · M
About a day.
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bearinthehalfwayhouse · 26-30, M
Well I mean... We left on somewhat bad terms so eh... About a week I'd say........ Only thing I miss is her coochie.... She good at riding BUT IIIIIIIIIIIII!! Digress. ┬┴┬┴┤•ᴥ •ʔ/
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Magenta · F
I don't have an ex spouse, just an ex.. "whatever he was". It's been a couple of years and I'm still not completely there.
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quitwhendone · M
I hope you cum across a good one that splits you open and makes you lose your mind.
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Callmewhatyouwill
2-3 to start not giving a shit. 6 months total
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quitwhendone · M
You know what you need?

Some new dick!
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Ferric67 · M
Time changes everything
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Blackbeauty · 36-40, F
I fully understand
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Blackbeauty · 36-40, F
@Blackbeauty I should not want my ex but I can't help but miss him.
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DisgruntledWookie
Decades
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Donotfolowme · 51-55, F
My average time is 12 months
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