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I'm a Loner Most of the Time

I love people, I really do, but I'm crushed when someone decides they don't want to know me. Over and over. I don't understand why people don't want a real friend who cares. And I can never stop myself from caring. It's more important to be myself though.
raysam363 · 31-35, F
Caring is the hardest part. Personally I find it hard to hold a connection to people, usually it's just one or two at a time. Plus, I don't feel like I'm that interesting so they pick up on that. Being a loner isn't all bad, and being (and more importantly, liking) yourself will only make things better for you.
raysam363 · 31-35, F
I know the feeling all too well. I guess after enough times it doesn't sting as much. I lost a lot of time with someone before though, so hopefully you aren't going through that.
ThirdEyeFox · 36-40, F
@raysam363 if I've helped someone it's never wasted, but my "friends" don't even know my mom is dying... It's surreal. You are very right, it doesn't sting near as much.
raysam363 · 31-35, F
When you best friend is your partner and things go horrible... well, no use crying over spilled milk. Your friends not knowing about your mom is atrocious though.
SW-User
Being alone most of the time builds true character and personal strength mentally and physically.

Life is bigger than us and in the end one true friend is better than a few fake friends.

I’ve always believed this.

Keep going. Haters gonna hate 😎
Pherick · 41-45, M
@SW-User [quote]one true friend is better than a few fake friends.[/quote]

👏👍️
ThirdEyeFox · 36-40, F
@SW-User thank you 🤗😎
SW-User
☮️ 💕 💡

@Pherick @ThirdEyeFox
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iamnikki · 31-35, F
Very relatable.
Always getting passed up for simply being quiet, and being myself
ThirdEyeFox · 36-40, F
@iamnikki so much beauty to share
Pherick · 41-45, M
I try not to get too involved with people online. Just never quite sure where I stand with them and how my life will twist and turn and where they will end up. Better to not get too involved.
ThirdEyeFox · 36-40, F
@Pherick I'm talking about "real life". I came back to SW so anyone would talk to me.
Pherick · 41-45, M
@ThirdEyeFox Oops! Sorry I misunderstood. I never quite understand it as well, I don't have TONS of friends, but I do enjoy knowing my friends well, I would much rather having quality over quantity.
ThirdEyeFox · 36-40, F
@Pherick no worries. You're right. I'd take one. Luckily I have my son. But it'd be nice to not give until I'm empty inside every single day of my life.
Ryannnnnn · 31-35, M
I think a lot of people are just so disconnected and insular these days, that and we're all pretty self concerned anyway. I sorta shut myself off from people because i'm used to it and don't mind and because I don't like letting people in I guess.
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jaymic64 · M
I feel that
IWasCallingYaLarry · 26-30, M
I am a loner, too.
Lilnonames · F
Because this world has every one programmed never take anything for free there is always a catch.which all the time is not true.some really do care
Lilnonames · F
@ThirdEyeFox yes it surely would be at that

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ThirdEyeFox · 36-40, F
@Lilnonames LoL this is why I have over 30 plants in my house 💚
Lilnonames · F
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