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I Want More Self-confidence

It's been difficult for me to come out of my shell. I'm making a conscious effort to do it, to take a firmer hold of my life and believe in myself. And I think I'm doing OK with it but some days I still feel unattractive and unsure of myself.
Orchidlove · 51-55, F
We all have those days when we don't feel up to par; you are not alone.

It is difficult doing things that are uncomfortable, so just give yourself a break.

I'm certain it took a considerable amount of time and experiences to put you in that shell to begin with, so you can't be too hard on yourself as it's going to take an equal amount of time and positive experiences to get out of it.

I know we live in a world of immediate gratification, but self -love is one of the most challenging things to ascertain and even harder to maintain.

Embrace yourself with positive energy. Good luck to you. You will get there!
Ynotisay · M
Sometimes it can take just one event or situation to give people long lasting confidence. Overcoming something that you never thought you'd do can be a shot in the arm. Anything from something like bungee jumping to telling someone out of line that they're out of line. Given that you're aware of it, and wanting to make a change, I'm sure you'll get there. Good luck.
PTCdresser57 · 61-69, M
Taking control and making decisions is a start. Trust your self in everything you do and I believe the confidence will come. As far as unattractive...well...dress the way that makes you feel good. Dress for success!
Rambler · M
Keep trying, you'll gain in confidence every day.
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Pherick · 41-45, M
We are always here to tell you how amazing and wonderful you are!
Benny5678 · 41-45, T
You're measuring outward beauty... First mistake
scheddybratzke · 26-30, M
program your mind with good affirmations
Dadbod52 · 56-60, M
I'm sure you are gorgeous inside and out
FUNBOY · M
Happy 4th! Thanks for the add.

 
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