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I Hate Guys Who Hit Women

An abuser isn't abusive 24/7. They usually demonstrate positive character traits most of the time. That's what makes the abuse so confusing when it happens, and what makes leaving so much more difficult. I know women, personally, who are physically and emotionally abused by their husbands, yet they stay and sometimes believe they are in love. I believe this is one of the reasons why this issue is still going. Abusive men will never stop abusing until women start to know their worth.

The biggest challenge is to convince a woman that it's not her fault. If your husband is abusive, you cannot ignore it. There's no excuse for a man hitting a woman. Ever. Self respect by definition is a confidence and pride in feeling that you are behaving in an honorable and dignified manner. Respect yourself and walk away.

Violence against women is the last refuge of disgusting immoral men. He who has once hit a woman, had forever killed a man in himself. Every time you mistreat a woman, you give up the right to be treated like a man.
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Fernie · F
Only women with very low or no self esteem allow men to abuse them. Abusive males zero in on women with no or low self esteem because those men are weak troglodytes who have to control women.
Madeleine · 41-45, F
@Fernie This is very true. I wonder though why most women would hide this aspect of their life. I know a woman who used to be physically abused by her husband for a year and a half. When her family would visit her, she would cover her face with makeup to hide the bruises. When her family found out, they wanted to her get divorced. She refused claiming that she loves him. They are still together, and she still complains about him every time I see her.
Fernie · F
@Madeleine clearly she thinks she deserves to be treated this way....she already feels like she has no worth or she would not allow herself to be abused.....