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Why do I attract desperate/clingy men?

Many times I had to block, they seem interested in a relationship but they get so clingy, have emotional issues, ask for naughty pics and push into dating too fast. How do I stop this? This is why I'm a little nervous with dating because the guys I do click with and have similar interests are not interested in me back.
It just seems when I get friendly with a guy, we talk for a bit he just gets clingy and creepy.
Reject · 26-30, M
You need a guy who loves you for your heart, and not your parts. It sounds like you push away the guys who cross your boundaries and that’s good. Clearly they aren’t grown enough to understand how to respect a woman. I know because I used to be a lot like that myself. I think I just didn’t love myself enough. Most women attract them so that’s not on you. I think you should focus on being your best self. Don’t worry about guys too much. Be a successful happy you without them and you’ll end up attracting the better ones as a result.
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Spokeskitties75 · 46-50, M
Because being a gentleman is becoming a lost art!
Lostpoet · M
show him a dick pic

 
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