I Am Divorced

Sometimes when I am chatting with ex wife about our kids, although, we are separated/divorced now 5 years. She still calls me love. Yesterday, I realized how much I miss her. Our kids are doing great, so the conversation is very easy. She lets it slip, “ You know love....” I miss her. She is remarried.

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ImpeccablyImperfect · 51-55, F

It happens....I've called my ex 'honey' on occasion. I would think it's a natural slip, given that we were together for 20 years also. (He usually just laughs at me and makes a joke)

I'm sorry though, that you feel like you're missing her. That's rough.
But you guys must be doing something right, if the kids are doing so well. :)

Jammy · 51-55, M

@ImpeccablyImperfect kids are important and we have stayed that course. I know it is a slip when she does it.

DayDreaming2 · F

It’s nice when you can be cordial with each other...when she uses terms of endearment, that’s bittersweet

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DayDreaming2 · F

@Jammy That would be hard. How long were you together?

Jammy · 51-55, M

20 years

Jammy · 51-55, M

@DayDreaming2 20 years

NiftyWhite · 46-50, F

I know how this feels except i’m the one who’s married... why did u break up?

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NiftyWhite · 46-50, F

ya break up was not really my choice either - i think that’s why it still resonates even after half a decade for me. @Jammy

Jammy · 51-55, M

@NiftyWhite I find it hard when we are at school together. Kids are doing well. So we talk and keep going over what the kids are doing. Feels natural to be
Together.

NiftyWhite · 46-50, F

@Jammy i don’t see my ex very often but i had to block him from texting and social media because if he contacted me i felt the same. he just made sense to me. conversation is easy and i get nostalgic. i think it’s pretty normal but it’s still hurtful. PM me if you feel like you wanna get more of your chest about it.

VeronicaJane

Sounds cordial. Great that the kids are doing well. Maybe it was just a echo of the past.

Was it just a slip, or does she say that all the time? Why did you breakup?

Jammy · 51-55, M

@VeronicaJane she says it when our conversation is relax. More when we are discussing happy events for our kids.

She left. She was not happy.

SW-User

😞 I hate how life is complicated like that.

SW-User

Memories

Foxyfoxfox · 51-55, F

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SStarfish ·

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