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I Believe Actions Speak Louder Than Words

I just poured my heart out in an answer to a question. The person was asking for help and I tried to give my advice! I was genuinely worried for this person. But, they totally ignored me and answered all the others around me. I got so pissed. I deleted my answer. Their actions speak louder than words to me. I will not waste my time on this person again. Cest la vie!

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Peaches · F

This kind of crap happened to me when I was on EP. People with so called mental problems would come to me asking for advise over and over. I'd type until my fingers almost fell off. I see them later here and they are portraying themselves totally different?!😒 Some are emotional vampires so I don't get involved with peoples emotional stuff anymore.

Indy74 · 46-50, F

@Peaches I'm done with it. I'll only try to help the ones I know and are in my friends circle.

Peaches · F

@Indy74 Yes, you are better off. 🤨 I've experienced the same, people getting hearts on their answers and mine ignored. I delete my response and don't comment on their posts anymore.👎🏼

Indy74 · 46-50, F

@Peaches that's what I have begun to do. It's not worth it.

Peaceful · F

I'm sorry that happened. If I find out someone doesn't care for me, I stop interacting with them as well.

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1234567890a

@Indy74 I saw your reply to LadyGrace, and checked out some of your posts. I hope it wasn’t me that didn’t reply.

Indy74 · 46-50, F

@1234567890a No, not at all my friend. So, no worries.🙂

1234567890a

@Indy74 good

GeorgeTBH · 31-35, M

a lot of people are like that on here they ask for advice you give them really good advice putting everything into it and they just ignore it or ignore you

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GeorgeTBH · 31-35, M

@Indy74 no problem :) its what friends do

Indy74 · 46-50, F

😎

GeorgeTBH · 31-35, M

🧐😎

SW-User

Self absorbed in their pity and don't really seek advice, just attention, drama queens, more drama more attention; answers and results = no drama and thats not what they seek, not what feeds them

Indy74 · 46-50, F

@SW-User you definitely have that right.

PoetryNEmotion · F

Too late. You already participated. Sometimes people just want to be heard. They don't want answers. They want attention.

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PoetryNEmotion · F

@Indy74 You replied. I try to answer only with brief answers to those who are needing answers. If they continue to chat with me on their posting, they likely truly want help. I leave it up to them.

Indy74 · 46-50, F

@PoetryNEmotion I understand what you're saying, I meant no disrespect to you. I was just angry. Thanks for answering.🙂

PoetryNEmotion · F

@Indy74 No offense taken.

St0ut · 51-55, M

Sometime people aren’t really looking for answers but for attention. Your heart was in the right place

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Indy74 · 46-50, F

@St0ut I am a brunette with a pixie cut. My husband is on here along with me. We can be friends and chat.

St0ut · 51-55, M

For the record. I don’t have a pixie cut.

Indy74 · 46-50, F

@St0ut 🤣 I didn't think so!!!

SStarfish ·

Lol sometimes i just block people asking for dumb advice because i know they won't take it anyway they just want to be stupid imo.. Ugh either that or they are just totally trolling idk

Indy74 · 46-50, F

@SStarfish I get what you're saying. Obviously this person is a troll.

JavaJoe · 51-55, M

We love and learn don’t we?

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JavaJoe · 51-55, M

@Indy74 i think that was supposed to say live and learn. Lol

Indy74 · 46-50, F

@JavaJoe I knew what you meant.☺

JavaJoe · 51-55, M

@Indy74 cool 😎

Virgo79 · 61-69, M

I do that alot!

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