I Was Sexualy Abused

My wife wsho is from Pakistan was sexualy abused at 18 by cousin 30 years in her country .She is christian . So she is block again refused any sex . It is big problem before she not said to mee we go doctor psychologue without succes one day she said this a friend who was nurse she try bring her to psychologie but succes now we are separed I am very sad