I Have a Question

I suppose I'll have to answer my question myself....How do I face my abuser....Its best to walk away and to avoid that person completely, they are not my friend nor will they ever be, so don't bother in confiding in them for I will never have them on my side.....my cold heart wants to ignore them and brace myself for the worst and not care about what they say or do and act coldly towards them and if he is harsh with me I will be harsh right back, but God wants me to be patient and kind, which I probably will be because It feels good to do the right thing. No sense it agrivating him and accusing him of all of the wrongs he's done to me in the past, when I need to go to the hospital and he's working just go and be patient and kind. Thats all I can do.