What's the most hurtful thing someone ever said to you [I Ask God Why] Someone told me Everyone...

SW-User

I’m younger than you but definitely believe that life gets better. I’ve been told I deserve to die alone and that I’m a failed miscarriage. I don’t let other people’s words hurt me. I’ve been in a bad place and lashed out at others so I recognise it has more to do with them. Happy people aren’t mean, they’re just not. You’re beautiful and only the lucky people will get to see your soul shine 😊

Keepitsimple · 51-55, F

When I was 5 months pregnant with my daughter my husband’s ex wife told us not to have a baby shower because the baby could still die so I cut off all contact between my husband and her daughter forever. (That child wasn’t his).

FlowersNButterflies · 61-69, F

My mom had three girls in three years. I was third. She told me I was a "mistake". Bad mother.

SW-User

to many to mention, too hurtful to reflect on, too much for today as I’m living for tomorrow ♥️

Adstar · 56-60, M

It's not really what is said to you that hurts..

The level of hurt goes up when the person who said it to you is a person you look upon as an Authority in your life..

The level of hurt also goes up if you believe the harsh words that are spoken against you..

People can say really hurtful thing to you.. But they are like water off a ducks back when you do not place value on the opinion of the one who said it.. And you have that inner confidence that their words are unjustified..

Oster1 · M

Something that is very hard to talk about.

For you, still keep your strong faith. That alone will see you through anything. Do not believe what others say to you. It is only used as a weapon to hurt and inflict pain unto you. Start immediately to weed the negatives, including people, out of your life. Put all of your energy into the ones you love and love you back. Try to have a good, happy and peaceful weekend.😊🌷

FlowersNButterflies · 61-69, F

You must learn self soothing and self affirmations. One of your life lessons is that self love comes from the self, not from outside of you. What they say has zero value, because hare-filled people have no value.

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I was once accused of being woke, right to my face! :-D Hurtful, but much needed since it forced me to look inwards for a moment. And yes, life gets better once you refuse to allow others to define you by being hurtful towards you.