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I don't like my grown son.

At. All.
BlueVeins · 22-25
Oh, the risks of creating a sentient being.
SW-User
@BlueVeins This kind of thing makes me hesitant to do so. 😳
BlueVeins · 22-25
@SW-User Good.
SW-User
@BlueVeins I kind of want a kid but if I ever do decide to (with a male partner) I’d rather we adopt.
SW-User
You’re not supposed to like him,you’re supposed to love him
RopinTexan · 31-35, M
@SW-User Like and love isn't the same thing.
Biffed · 26-30, M
Eternity · 26-30, M
Guess you should have hit him harder growing up. Or more often. Or both 🤷🏽‍♂️
Iwillwait · M
@bijouxbroussard I know,my apologies, imma dum dum.
@Iwillwait 🤗
Eternity · 26-30, M
@bijouxbroussard im joking
RopinTexan · 31-35, M
You don't have to like him, but you have to love him. I don't always like everyone in my family either, but I always strive to love them anyway.
That's a big statement. It takes courageous honesty to say that.

I think there are many parents who aren't crazy about their children, and in doing and feeling what they think they're [i]supposed[/i] to do and feel, they're not being completely honest with themselves, and never settle the issue internally. So, they keep living pretentiously.
Foxyfoxfox · 51-55, F
@PhoenixPhail Its taken a long time to get here. To be honest about it and face it
@Foxyfoxfox I think you're doing great. It takes a lot to own feelings like that.
Viper · M
What did he do this time?
Foxyfoxfox · 51-55, F
@Viper lol the list is lonnnnng
Viper · M
@Foxyfoxfox sorry to hear that :(
Iwillwait · M
@Foxyfoxfox why do you not like your son?
Lostpoet · M
🤨Did my parent tell you to say this!?!? Jk
Adamski24 · 41-45, M
We don't have to like everyone
It's not uncommon for family members to dislike or even hate each other - often for very good reasons.

But it's always possible to create a family of friends whom one loves and is close to.
Not sure if you're the typical mother saying 'they grow up so fast' or you're disappointed in who he is. Hopefully the former
Foxyfoxfox · 51-55, F
@BeefySenpie the latter
texasborn89 · 31-35, M
Is there a good reason for it? Have you always felt that way?
Quetzalcoatlus · 46-50, M
I don’t like my fam sometimes either. It’s normal
Rambler · M
That would be sad.
Foxyfoxfox · 51-55, F
@Rambler it really really is
Thats ok. But why
Ingwe · F
I understand too well

we get on each others nerves at times
SW-User
Why so, son is son grown or small
Foxyfoxfox · 51-55, F
@SW-User there are exceptions
SW-User
@Foxyfoxfox that's true
SW-User
That’s deep .... I’m sorry

Time is a healer ☮️
JohnOinger · 41-45, M
Has He Been Rude To You
MarkPaul · 26-30, M
That's not allowed.
Nobody00 · F
What happened
Bobdale · 56-60, M
Can't blame urself for how they turn out .
Iwillwait · M
Why, what happened? What reasons?
Iwillwait · M
What did he do?
FatherTime · 61-69, M
lol how come?
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