I Lost My Father

There's an emptiness that never quite goes away. It's been 19 years since my Dad died(while I was laying in the bed next to him) But there's also something else that never goes away. He is in me. I know he would be proud of me(despite my failures--especially of late) and he would be so very proud of how my kids have turned out. That, to me; is the true measure of a man. Knock me down for my faults and weaknesses and mistakes. I don't care. I am immensely proud of the character of my (now young adult) children. Because of them; because of what my Dad-and Mom-have instilled in me and I passed onto my kids; nothing can make my life a failure now. I don't know if you have kids, but if you do; I'm guessing you've followed in your Dad's footsteps. And so, he will never be far from you. Just step outside at night and look at the stars. Sounds silly, but it's what I do and it makes me realize He's still with me. (my child when young-not long after my Dad died; saw a shooting star and exclaimed..LOOK!! THERE"S POP_POP!) Best of wishes to you. Don't mourn his death for too long; you'll serve him better by celebrating his life, and it seems you are on the right path with that now.

I lost my dad when I was 5 and he was cut too short out of my life. He was also young, well known, and loved. He was such a hard working and strong determined person. I miss him everyday. I'm now 16 and still cry for him and even though I only known him 5 years, I still remember everything because of everything we did as a family and the person he was.

Condolences Flutterby.... ,, he sounded like a great father to have .. No doubt you will miss him dearly indeed until you meet again 🌹

what a WONDERFUL MAN, the universe has gained a brighter light to share with us all anytime, everyday. :)

What a beautiful tribute to your Father. I'm sorry for your loss, sounds like a true gentleman.

Not lost - memories forever - hold tight and pass them on.

Your father sounds like a wise and kind man. I'm sorry for your loss.

Wish him a happy journey to the afterlife!

Me too on the 16th. It blows

i know what you mean, ive lost both parents myself

My grandparents raised him just right.....

Hug and silence.

RIP. I also lost mine 3 months ago

May god be with you

A great great man!!!

I'm so terribly sorry for your loss

I am sorry to hear about your loss.

Sorry to hear about your loss

May he rest in peace..amen

R.I.P.