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Did you ever have a friend with benefits?
katielass · F
Not really but would like to.
katielass · F
@Raythedevil Yeah, and sometimes it's awkward. I don't want to hurt anyone's feelings.
Raythedevil · 56-60, M
@katielass Sometimes it just takes a direct no, I get it all the time, get over it quick though.
katielass · F
@Raythedevil If someone is pretty direct with me I have no problem being direct with them. I'm always nice about it and say I'm flattered but I don't swig that way. What I find puzzling is how to react when a female I suspect might be gay talks to me and isn't coming out and saying she is. If I assume she is interested that's a bit presumptuous and if I let her go on and on she might think well wth didn't u tell me. I have a few gay friends, male and female, and they were all very direct with me. Get that out of the way, but then they already knew I wasn't against gays so maybe that helps.
SpiritOfSoul · 26-30, F
@Bigbrandy Isnt that so lovely!
Bigbrandy · 31-35, F
SpiritOfSoul · 26-30, F
@Bigbrandy Great fun!
butterfly1013 · 26-30, F
Kinda. Does an ex boyfriend with benefits count?
SpiritOfSoul · 26-30, F
@butterfly1013 If they were friends who had sex with you,fine
butterfly1013 · 26-30, F
@SpiritOfSoul nope.. they were never my friends just boys who only wanted to be bothered to even speak to me when nobody was around and then they'd spread rumors and talk about soon after.
SpiritOfSoul · 26-30, F
@butterfly1013 Oh no.Sad
Mhello · 56-60, F
Ha Ha this is a question just for me right 😈
Mhello · 56-60, F
@SpiritOfSoulwishing it was you😍😘
SpiritOfSoul · 26-30, F
@Mhello 😘
Raythedevil · 56-60, M
@Mhello Just for you, I'd be glad to be your FWB.
SweetMae · 70-79, F
No, I have not.
SpiritOfSoul · 26-30, F
@SweetMae Possibly averse to the idea
SweetMae · 70-79, F
@SpiritOfSoul No, I would like that.
Pineapple · 100+, F
SpiritOfSoul · 26-30, F
@Pineapple so wonderful to have them
Degbeme · 70-79, M
Raythedevil · 56-60, M
@Degbeme Isn't your wife also your best friend?
Degbeme · 70-79, M
@Raythedevil Some days..
Raythedevil · 56-60, M
@Degbeme Good answer.
KaTeeEvent · 36-40, F
Indeed, friends with very special benefits including right here online.
SpiritOfSoul · 26-30, F
@KaTeeEvent GREAT!
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SW-User
@nadine friends you trade pokemon cards with.
SpiritOfSoul · 26-30, F
@SW-User laughoutloud!
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SW-User
yes and it was awesome af while it lasted
SpiritOfSoul · 26-30, F
@SW-User Really is wonderful!
NotYourPepper · 41-45, F
[c=#003BB2]yes I did. [/c]
SpiritOfSoul · 26-30, F
@NotYourPepper so very convenient!
NotYourPepper · 41-45, F
@SpiritOfSoul [c=#7700B2]it is indeed. If everyone is on the same page,it can be a very good experience.[/c]
SpiritOfSoul · 26-30, F
@NotYourPepper just do long as emotional feelings do not cause ripples when sex is being enacted.
vetguy1991 · 51-55, M
SpiritOfSoul · 26-30, F
@vetguy1991 not all like the idea
vetguy1991 · 51-55, M
Not my style
SpiritOfSoul · 26-30, F
@vetguy1991 just like I said above
Atrevido1 · 61-69, M
Once. Not for me
SpiritOfSoul · 26-30, F
@Atrevido1 doesnt work for many
Atrevido1 · 61-69, M
@SpiritOfSoul Feeling can get in the way.
SpiritOfSoul · 26-30, F
@Atrevido1 that's the biggest problem
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SpiritOfSoul · 26-30, F
@Waymore yeah, thanks
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Raythedevil · 56-60, M
@SpiritOfSoul Roommate with benefits, so I heard.
suziegrl · 41-45, F
Yes I have. Always with women
Yes. Several times.

Had one where we met almost every weekend for 5 years. The end came with a job location change. We are still friends on social media.

Some don't pan out as well. All I can say is that they work well until someone catches feelings.....
SpiritOfSoul · 26-30, F
@Threepio Great!
GJOFJ3 · 61-69, M
I definitely need one
SpiritOfSoul · 26-30, F
@GJOFJ3 makes things convenient
Sanderilla · 61-69, F
Oh I wish 😀
SpiritOfSoul · 26-30, F
@Sanderilla Can be so convenient!
Raythedevil · 56-60, M
@SpiritOfSoul It does seem to have come into fashion more with the somewhat younger crowd.
SW-User
[c=#BF0080]No. Nor do I want one. [/c]
RainBisou · F
Yes for a time.
SpiritOfSoul · 26-30, F
@RainBisou easy fuck!
manandwoman · 56-60
Yes.!! My wife!
SpiritOfSoul · 26-30, F
@manandwoman Great response!
SpiritOfSoul · 26-30, F
@Dewms doesn't suit many
SpiritOfSoul · 26-30, F
@sarabee1995 Convenient!
Never have. I'm too much of a romantic person, but if my crush wanted to I would do anything just to get close to this special person.🤗 That's the only way I could ever do that. How about you?
AngelKrish · 26-30, M
Hmm..ones on ep , I called my friend beautiful. ..she started sending me pics . Cloths got shorter and then nude...I didn't asked her for that..but what can I do when she ...so indirectly benefit for hr..😊
Exhibiter100000 · 61-69, M
Yes. And she was beautiful. Wish she hadn't moved off. I want her back.
SpiritOfSoul · 26-30, F
@Exhibiter100000 unfortunately they usually move away
Exhibiter100000 · 61-69, M
Yes. She was a work collegue of mine and she got a promotion that she so deserved@SpiritOfSoul
SpiritOfSoul · 26-30, F
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SpiritOfSoul · 26-30, F
@Longpatrol90 Ooooooops!
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JRVanguard · 26-30, M
I don’t even have any real world friends anymore or have had sex so no, the biggest no I can give
SpiritOfSoul · 26-30, F
JRVanguard · 26-30, M
@SpiritOfSoul Eh it’s alright I’ve made peace with it
Not really, I had one girlfriend, that was the only relationship I had
SpiritOfSoul · 26-30, F
@ThatOneMan Dedicated.Great!
Well, I don't got her anymore
Raythedevil · 56-60, M
@ThatOneMan Unless you're a frog, you'll have more...maybe even if you are a frog.
Controller · 61-69, M
To be truthful two great ladies 😇
SpiritOfSoul · 26-30, F
@Controller so very kinky!
Controller · 61-69, M
It’s good to keep it in the family
SpiritOfSoul · 26-30, F
SoftServe · 26-30, M
Yes once. She had issues with it though
SpiritOfSoul · 26-30, F
@SoftServe Does happen with some
SoftServe · 26-30, M
True. She decided she wanted to be exclusively involved.
SpiritOfSoul · 26-30, F
@SoftServe that usually happens
Runningwolves · 61-69, M
No, I don't believe intimacy can happen without some kind of emotional attachment
SW-User
Still do. 2 guys 2 girls.
SW-User
@SpiritOfSoul I think so 😊
SpiritOfSoul · 26-30, F
Yeah.Great fun!
SW-User
@SpiritOfSoul never together though! I need to make that clear lol
OzDiver · 61-69, M
No, but I wish I did.
OzDiver · 61-69, M
@SpiritOfSoul I bet they are. 😞
SpiritOfSoul · 26-30, F
@OzDiver Convenient for sex
OzDiver · 61-69, M
@SpiritOfSoul I know! 😫
Raythedevil · 56-60, M
Raythedevil · 56-60, M
@SpiritOfSoul Yeah, she calls me a lot, to let me know what's going on in her life, but we don't feel that way about each other and don't get together.
SpiritOfSoul · 26-30, F
@Raythedevil good on a way, I guess
Raythedevil · 56-60, M
@SpiritOfSoul Yeah, in a way.
redgator2007 · 51-55, M
Have one now, and she likes my fetish.
SpiritOfSoul · 26-30, F
@redgator2007 Great!
redgator2007 · 51-55, M
I think so too
Sourdad · 56-60, M
No, I'm not emotionally equipped for that.
SpiritOfSoul · 26-30, F
@Sourdad I see
Spokeskitties75 · 46-50, M
Yes... most of my friends at least have a 401k
SpiritOfSoul · 26-30, F
@Spokeskitties75 Great benefit!
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SpiritOfSoul · 26-30, F
@seeandhear Great!
Ismiles001 · 56-60, M
Yes, several over the years :)
SpiritOfSoul · 26-30, F
@Ismiles001 great!
gmatthewb · 51-55, M
No, never have either :(
SpiritOfSoul · 26-30, F
@gmatthewb Some dont believe in that
gmatthewb · 51-55, M
@SpiritOfSoul I know. Most don't.
Close2six · M
Yes. A couple of different friends. Seemed to be fine
Badboy · 61-69, M
Yep!Wish I knew where She is now.
SpiritOfSoul · 26-30, F
@Badboy Oh!
clamenza · 56-60, M
Yes I sure did. It was great👍
SpiritOfSoul · 26-30, F
@clamenza Great!
Luminoussoul · 31-35, M
Actually i don't have any
SpiritOfSoul · 26-30, F
@Luminoussoul Couldnt find one?
Luminoussoul · 31-35, M
No..
SpiritOfSoul · 26-30, F
@SpiritOfSoul you never know what the future may hold. 😉
philjames53 · 61-69, M
yes i have one now
aqua59 · 61-69, M
Kinda sorta.
SpiritOfSoul · 26-30, F
@aqua59 kinda lovely fun!
SpiritOfSoul · 26-30, F
@ANightWithNoMoon so convenient
ANightWithNoMoon · 31-35, M
not very. It didn't last very long. But it was fun for the while
SpiritOfSoul · 26-30, F
@Thebartender Pretty convenient
Thebartender · 36-40, M
@SpiritOfSoul oh yeah.. No emotions. Just sex

 
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