I Am Lonely

There's clearly something wrong with me. Everybody keeps leaving me. It's always the same cycle. Meet someone. Have some fun. Then they need help with something. Do everything you can to help, see them through it. Finally it's "Thanks for that, but I think we need some distance now."

Obviously the problem is me.

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Loretta78 · 46-50, F

I am not sure if YOU are the problem because I've made EXACTLY the same experiences.

I tend to believe that nowadays people don't want long-lasting relationships.

I am feeling almost like the boss of loneliness. I don't have ANY, really ANY friends at all. Not on SW and not in real life. Sometimes I don't hear my own voice for weeks.

And although this loneliness is sometimes really hard for me to take I prefer it like this than always and always get cheated by people/"friends" again.

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Xuan12 · 31-35, M

@Loretta78: Sometimes I think the sound of my voice has actually changed from such little use.

Loretta78 · 46-50, F

@Xuan12: Yes. That's what I think sometimes too. It might be possible. 😓

Xuan12 · 31-35, M

@Loretta78: Oh, I don't think you need to worry about it. I'm sure your voice is lovely either way. Personally, I think mine gets better. The relaxed vocal chords seem to, for a time, have greater vocal range. I can sing in ways I couldn't before, at least for a little while.

Vivaci

Dont blame yourself. Thats how most of the social sites are. Only 2-5% of them will stay ...rest will leave.
If you ever feel like talking, feel free to msg me! 🤗

secondtimearound · 31-35, F

Same problem. No one cares enough to stay. I don't like getting close to others cause they always leave.

Xuan12 · 31-35, M

@secondtimearound: Yeah, I'm pretty torn up by it now.

secondtimearound · 31-35, F

@Xuan12: I don't think the problem is you.

SW-User

You give to much and don't ask for enough in return.
If you are loyal expect loyalty in return if you do not get it be the first to leave.

Xuan12 · 31-35, M

@justmerae: I catch myself doing that all the time merae, you're right. I give by nature.

Notmesam

You're young, there's plenty of time to find the one. Just concentrate on having fun and stop hooking up with bitches that need fixing...

Xuan12 · 31-35, M

@kekobaka: Yeah, but I won't be young for long, and I'm really suffering for loneliness at the moment. This is not how I want my youth to be.

TexChik · F

Would that person be honest enough to tell you the truth? If they would then could start working to fix things . I assume your appearance is fine ... I have known people that hired a psychologist or life coach to help them correct things

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Xuan12 · 31-35, M

@TexChik: My friends aren't very supportive either. Don't have even 15 minutes all week to even talk on the phone. I get that people can be busy, but damn.

TexChik · F

@Xuan12: hmmm , is it a breath issue ? I've seen that before . And people didn't want to say anything . Surely one of them will tell you what it is that puts them off

Xuan12 · 31-35, M

@TexChik: I don't think they can smell me over the phone too, haha. 😅

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