I Am Lonely

So a reason I don't make a lot of posts about my life is because people say the same things im tired of hearing.
join some clubs

Be patient

Get out more

You'll find someone one day

Aw that's a good thing

Join some clubs

Ect

honestly listening to all of that for years is driving me crazy not to mention putting it into practice only to lead to shame and embarrassment.

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DarlingSelah ·

Its just a reflex. People see someone struggling & they want to help. Even if they have nothing to offer.

Isaiah · M

this comment I love this comment thank you Calliope everybody take note of this. especially the nothing to offer part

Carissimi · 70-79, F

Spot on.

Carissimi · 70-79, F

I know. I did that for years when I was younger. It made no difference. I wasn't lonely for groups of people engaging in small talk, I was lonely for a special relationship of connection and intimacy...someone who really cares for you...not just going through the motions of being sociable. I still hear it now. They don't understand.

SW-User

You need to do more then hearing stuff from people ;)

Isaiah · M

umm did you read the bottom where I said putting it to practice only to have it lead to shame...yeah I did more than just hear it.

FreeInterpretation · 41-45, F

Is it lonely for that special connection? Such as girlfriend one has mentioned above? Well.. Just luck I guess 😕 and luck door may begin on those they've mention for you.

SW-User

Curl up read a book and stop stressing it. On here just be yourself brush off the haters they don't know you! Eventually you'll click with someone.

Itsprincess · 22-25, F

Do you not go to school/have a job?

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Isaiah · M

@Itsprincess: yes and in I would like to have friends go to the movies with people my age and do cool stuff with that I can make memories with while I'm still young. but I also don't have a girlfriend if you wish to focus on that lol

Itsprincess · 22-25, F

Ahh okay. I don't know how to help sorry. All I know is that I was in the same position and I just reached out to people and started making an effort. I put my phone down when i was out, stopped myself from making that natural restless bitch face lol and made a couple friends and I met an online girl who's now my friend in real life. I didn't mean it in that way lol

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