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I Am Lonely

I opened up my world to a man whom I thought cared about me. I shared everything about myself. I told him about how most of my weekends are spent at home and about my strained relationship with my mom (who has kind of cut me out of her life). This is a tiny sample of information.

Months later - he calls me “pathetic” and picks on me on and off about my mom. Pathetic - because I do not go out much on weekends. He also likes to guilt-trip me about my mom. He says I do not care about my parents - what does he know :(. My dad means the world to me.

How many of you’ll have experienced this? Being humiliated after sharing everything from A to Z about yourself.

I have gone into a shell off late and I’m afraid of falling in love again.
HappytoTalk · 61-69, F
He sounds narcissistic.. better off with out him..
But don’t let that stop you from opening your heart to a genuine guy out there.. be cautious..don’t give too much of yourself at first.. that’s the trouble with this world today people have mobile phones , internet , social media and get fall to fast ..not like in my day when we did things slower , because we could only meet up on weekends..and so we got to know each other slower,
HappytoTalk · 61-69, F
When I met my husband he lived across the road more or less and he pop in every night..talking was done face to face and friendship grew that way into love.. took me 6 months or more to realise I loved him.. not like today it’s all over in 6 months because of cell phones ect.@ms20182878
solitaire · 41-45, F
People do not understand the meaning of love nowadays. Unfortunately, most do not want anything permanent :(
ms20182878 · 61-69, M
@solitaire Love is a verb... we all need to remember that every day.
RubySoo · 56-60, F
Yeap. It hurts so very much.
Hugs to you. You dont deserveto be treated this way. X
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Primnproper · 56-60, F
He sounds like a complete nut job and you're better off without him..he's the one with the most issues so don't carry it on your shoulders..count yourself lucky to have found out and move forward.
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Primnproper · 56-60, F
@RogueLoner as we do on any and until he comes and explains himself I stand by what I say.
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This has happened to me, but I refuse to be humiliated.
Rather, I see the entire experience as an indicator I need to do a better job of looking before I leap.

I understand the deal about the fear of falling in love, but if you first fall in love with yourself, you'll have nothing to lose with anyone. AND, it will help you choose who you want to be with.

Good Luck.
Tell him to shut the fuck up & move on.
SW-User
Awfully judgemental that person. I hope you don't have to deal again with them.
I have been humiliated but in other ways when I trusted. It's very painful, cause one trusted in them.
Cowboybob · M
Wow. That really sucks. People can really be assholes. Just remember this is an issue with him, not you.
ms20182878 · 61-69, M
Tantrapleasure · 56-60, M
Some people are a nuts; don't let it get to you please.
solitaire · 41-45, F
Thanks. Am trying to cope
Tantrapleasure · 56-60, M
That's good. You sound like a wonderful person with lots to give.
SW-User
That's quite bad. Don't let his assholery to affect your life. :/
solitaire · 41-45, F
He hardly corresponds with me nowadays. Looking back, it was I who made the effort to strike up a conversation - at the end of the day it probably does not make a difference to him
SW-User
@solitaire consider yourself lucky. Some folks become religiously abusive and they come back to life, again and again, only to make it worse. You got your share of pain already. Greater he stays away from you, more convenient it becomes to heal.
Montanaman · M
😔💕🤗
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