I Lost Someone In a Car Accident
My parents were killed in a car accident when I was 9
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Silverwings · 61-69, F
I am so sorry to hear this, it has to be hard for you, and quiet possibly it might be the reason you are having trouble in school. You did not say how old you are now? Have you had any counseling ? I am going to say that I doubt it, and if not I urge you to find a good therapist, it can make a world of difference.
There is probably a world of hurt bottled up inside of you, that needs to come out, so you can find some closure, and to get some answers to the why question that is bound to be plaguing you.
My sister and I lost our father when I was 10 and she was 7, she took it harder than I did, and because she was home when it happened and he did it to himself , she was tramatized , she got in really bad shape emotionally, and did not get any therapy at the time, but it kept eating at her, and she broke down all together.
When she broke from the stress of it all and not much help to work thru it, she was finally taken to therapists, but it took several different ones and the help of God, who came into her life, and several medications, to ever get her to the place where she could begin to feel normal.
I urge anyone that has gone thru a life altering situation to seek professional help, and if the first one you contact is unable to help you , please do not give up, keep trying , you will know when you get the right one.
I love you in the LORD, AND God loves you more!! Have you ever allowed him to come into your life? If not I urge you to seek him through prayer, just talk to him like you would your father, he knows your pain, and will help you. It might help to start a journal, to express how you are feeling. And you can read back thru is as time goes by, and hopefully you will be able to see the progress you are making.
There is probably a world of hurt bottled up inside of you, that needs to come out, so you can find some closure, and to get some answers to the why question that is bound to be plaguing you.
My sister and I lost our father when I was 10 and she was 7, she took it harder than I did, and because she was home when it happened and he did it to himself , she was tramatized , she got in really bad shape emotionally, and did not get any therapy at the time, but it kept eating at her, and she broke down all together.
When she broke from the stress of it all and not much help to work thru it, she was finally taken to therapists, but it took several different ones and the help of God, who came into her life, and several medications, to ever get her to the place where she could begin to feel normal.
I urge anyone that has gone thru a life altering situation to seek professional help, and if the first one you contact is unable to help you , please do not give up, keep trying , you will know when you get the right one.
I love you in the LORD, AND God loves you more!! Have you ever allowed him to come into your life? If not I urge you to seek him through prayer, just talk to him like you would your father, he knows your pain, and will help you. It might help to start a journal, to express how you are feeling. And you can read back thru is as time goes by, and hopefully you will be able to see the progress you are making.
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IWasCallingYaLarry · 26-30, M
I'm sorry :(
