Almost 5 (!!!) years later now, is there any update to what was your very first SW post? And thank you soooooo much for sharing all of this, and for being a longtime member in our community for as well. 🌞

You have plenty of time to find love, in the meantime tell the police what happened. It's not your fault.

I am often impressed with some of the young people that I see on the site. You are absolutely right you should try to be the best girlfriend ever that was the perfect attitude to have. When you date someone you learn a lot about the person you are dating and you also learn about yourself. You grow and you mature and you learn What not to do as well as what to do. In the future I would suggest that you set a few guidelines since you have been in this situation what did you learn what should you have stopped before it happen what boundaries and restrictions should you have put in place.
1. Always have your own transportation
2. Also it is important that people know where you are at

But there is something else that must be done have you ever wondered how all of these people in Hollywood in Congress could have done so many women wrong been so disrespectful over a long period of time it is because the 1st person never said anything. If you did not report what he did And he does it to someone else after you believe it or not you are responsible for her pain and suffering because you could have stopped it by letting people know the type character he has. Say something, don't let him think it is ok to do to the next girl

First of all I’m sorry that happened to you. That’s really terrible that he felt entitled enough that he could force himself onto you like that. How old is this ‘boy’? Geezus!!!
You have no reason to feel shame or that anyone would judge you. You said no but he insisted until you physically defended yourself. That was an attempted rape by all accounts. I hope don’t see him anymore.
Boys like him thing that because they are popular that they are entitled to whatever they want. But there is such a thing as common courtesy and being considerate of your wishes and feelings. He obviously has no intention of being anything but selfish.

Guys, some guys are just out for one thing and don't care how they get it. Date rape happens all the time, luckily you got away. Perhaps you could talk to your mom about it, sure she will be angry you went to the party but she might also be able to help you ease your mind, I probably sound like a old fuddy duddy but parents tell you things most times to help you, it took me yrs to figure that out myself, try talking to her she might be more understanding then you think
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Rick

Oh my God ... Fn punk 🤬
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So Sorry Purp 😣
I hope you’re ok physically and strong mentally to realize
you’re the victim here, he’s the monster, he needs to be reported and in jail -
You said he’s a Complete Scumbag , yes that he is, but he’s ALSO A RAPIST and needs to be dealt with .
He’s lucky you’re not my daughter!
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Unfortunately, it can be difficult to know when a person is a selfish and immature gamer. Experience will eventually help you see the signs. At least you were strong enough to stand up for yourself and not give in to doing something you didn't want to do. Hang in there and keep looking. There ARE good ones out there.

That's horrible, I'm very sorry that ever happened, nobody deserves that

You don't need a guy like that. No means no and if he doesn't accept and respect that you weren't ready then ditch him and found a guy that will wait until you are ready. Hope this helps.

Stay far away from him. Bloody monster. You will find a prince one day. Becareful who u trust. So sorry abt what happend

:( *hugggsss* I'm sorry, girl.

How long did you date this guy?

You seem really sweet, you deserve somebody that will treat you with respect

I'm sorry you had to go through this.

*hugs