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I Hate Fake People

Hate may sound a bit harsh after I get done writing this but.. I do have a dislike of fake people. Now the fake people I am targeting in this little note are the tough talking fake people. I am sure we have encountered them. They would be the person that after you tell your close call story, they would be the ones who say " If that was me I would have ...." or better ... " If some body tried that to me..." etc ... I think we know the type.
One particular one stands out vividly. I had just got myself in a heap of trouble with the police and was out on bail. This buddy of mine who's house we were in said " If the police come here looking for any thing I will tell them to go to hell, you better get a search warrant". Then he turned around and walked out onto the porch. He then immediately came back in the house with a very shocked look on his face and two large officers right behind him. The cops were in the process of letting their selves into the house as the host was bragging. I mean it happened just like that. They came in and started to collect I.D.'s and checking ages. They even found a bong that they charged the host with having.
The police were there for about an hour harassing people and just making their authority known.
Our host turned into putty in the police officers hands and bent to their every request or demand. Not one word of disdain or even question that they didn't knock or have a search warrant.
That's the kind of fake people I am referring to.
" If I was you".... " If that would have happened to me"...." I wouldn't take that".... and they all are most likely fooling their selves. Maybe they believe in their heart of hearts that that is what they would do. But when the chips are down they change their tone.
Dainbramadge
56-60, M
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Dainbramadge · 56-60, M
@ Ic3Queen. Hate is a large burden to carry. Like I said, I think hate maybe a strong word for it. You know now that I'm thinking about it, I think what I felt for the host was embarrassment. I mean he was just talking real big then BLAM reality lets it's self in his front door.
Thank you for reading and commenting and I think you have brighten my out look a little. :-)
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SW-User
I think those people are more ignorant than fake. They don't know themselves well enough to know the truth of how they'd react.
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Serenitree · F
When I say things like that, I usually say,

"I like to think that if that ever happened to me, I would stand up for my rights! But being a wimp, I would probably cry or faint."

Depending on the situation.
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Dainbramadge · 56-60, M
@ Ic3Queen. I believe you are right the hate is the opposite of love and love is a pretty strong feeling and people have done the craziest things in the name of love. So have people done unspeakable things in the name of hate. I had to take an anger management class one time and I found out that you can't deny feelings of anger. They are natural. But you can control how you act on those feelings.
LOL This has taken a strange twist wouldn't you say?
Went from talking about loud mouths to the effects of love and hate.
I'm not complaining. I love to indulge in such conversations. :-)
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Darci ·
Dainbramadge · Yes. I remember being angry last time and I ignored everyone and opted out saying I need to cool off then they'll hear from me again. I was so upset but I figured out how to keep a good control of myself and rose above the situation eventually. The thing about anger is that it will make you say things or do things you won't normally do and then regret it later so yea, opting out and cooling off is best. You can always discuss stuff with whose responsible later nothing much too lose.
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SW-User
Hopefully they learn. The bragging and bravado gets old fast especially when a person doesn't have a clue.
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Darci ·
We all say Hate is harsh blah blah blah. When you're hurt you'll hate it's the opposite effect of 'love' or affection or whatever. Thing is once you get to accept facts, and move on, the hate becomes less prominent and so does the anger because you're not attached to it any longer - move on, forgive yourself but never forget what people are capable of doing to you.

...and meeting fake people certainly does not help you hate or resent things any less.
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Dainbramadge · 56-60, M
@ Ic3Queen. The best solution to use in an anger moment is to simply remove your self from the situation. That was another anger management thing I learned. Well I learned the words and then a long while later I realized how to do it.
That was why I was in A.M. was because I always let the anger do it's thing and I just sat back and watched. Every time I did that I got into trouble. I don't believe any situation worked out in my favor until I started to control it.
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Darci ·
Dainbramadge · Yes, indeed you are right. Even I have trouble keeping my anger under control sometimes but I found out it does me more harm than good if I unleash it so keeping a cool and clear mind is best. Emotions to weird things to us in such a way it over powers our rational thinking and can get dangerous.
I don't mind talking such debates so long as they are productive and well argued :P
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Dainbramadge · 56-60, M
@Serenitree Ha ha ha Thank you for your reply. I also try to do that. I try to say " I would hope if I were in that position.." or some thing like that. I used to do what every body else was saying they would do. I got in a lot of trouble speaking my mind and using a fowl attitude. Then I slowly found out people don't always do what they say.
Thanks again for reading and commenting.
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Dainbramadge · 56-60, M
@ LSeule I believe you may be right. They have never been in a situation such as I described and they are ignorant to what their reaction to be.
Thank you for reading and commenting.
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Dainbramadge · 56-60, M
@ LSeul I agree with you on that. The braggarts that always sound tough in speech. I wonder if they do ever learn?
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Darci ·
Dainbramadge · It is but sometimes it's unavoidable. Just needs time. It is strong because anger and whatever comes with such feelings are so intense. Aww I always like to give in my input, if it's appreciated much the better =)
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