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I Went Through A Break Up That Changed My Life [Painful Breakups]

I pretend am okay. That am happy without her. its been 6 months now and i have not moved on, she has. its my fault we broke up and i tried to say am sorry but i realized sometimes sorry isn't enough. Sometimes there are no second chances. One mistake and your OUT!. I pretended it didn't hurt me, i even acted as if the break up had improved me but i was lying. thats what i wanted people to think so i wouldn't look like i was torn apart. i was. I lost motivation to do anything. she was my motivation. we worked in the same department and i just couldn't work with her being there no more. it just kept bringing back memories so i quit that job for another. my workmates kept asking why i left suddenly but i just had to. i had to find a proper place to heal if i was to move on, i thought to myself, "i said am sorry,maybe she will come back, it just takes time sometimes" I waited, and waited, and waited then i decided to quit waiting and just go talk to her maybe shes waiting for me to make the come-back move but guess what? She had already found someone else. She wasn't waiting for me. It appears i had only imagined what i wanted to be true. I thought we would go through anything but i was so wrong. I have to accept the truth that its over and that its never coming back.
Unlearn · 41-45, M
You loved an image of a person. The image you had of her in your mind...many a times that image is much more beautiful and angelic than the actual person. The actual person might just be a normal, not-so- beautiful replica of that I'm age in your mind. If anything...you need to let go of that image. It's the image you had fallen for.
I don't know what you did. Some things really are unforgivable.. Others are just an excuse to break up when they want to break up anyway

 
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