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I Will Not Be Involved With Toxic People

Success Defeating Behaviours.... I came across a very interesting and enlightening little book.It has 35 chapters and they are as follow.

1) Don't learn any useful skills.
2) Don't learn any self discipline.
3) Never accept responsibility for anything that goes wrong.
4) Critisize early and often.
5) Never be grateful.
6) Convince yourself you are the centre of the universe.
7) Know that you are the source of all wisdom.
8) Envy everything; Appreciate nothing.
9) Be a perfectionist.
10) Think too big.
11) Don't enjoy the simple things in life.
12) Fix anyone and everyone at any time.
13) Treat the people who are good to you badly.
14) Treat the people who are bad to you well.
15) Hang out with the wrong crowd.
16) Make the people around you fell small.
17) Keep score.
18) Use drugs and alcohol freely.
19) Don't save any money.
20) Ignore your family.
21) Know that the rules of reasonable,decent conduct don't apply to you.
22) Live as if truth is relative: A distant relative.
23) Remember that no one else counts.
24) Know that you don't owe anyone a thing.
25) Gamble with money.
26) Make it clear: Pets are for losers.
27) don't clean up after yourself.
28) Have no respect for age and experience.
29) Show everyone around that you are holier than thou.
30) Fight the good fight.....over everything.
31) Do it your way.
32) Think the worst of everyone.
33) Live above your means.
34) Be a Smart-Ass.
35) Whenever possible say " I Told You So"


From "How To Ruin Your Life" By Ben Stein.
TNTandCHOCOLATE
Brilliant ! What a brilliant Christmas present to some people i know !! LOL Well, I am glad i am becoming a lot more mellow with the years, life is a work in progress. I could juice all those to one single paragraph - LACK OF LOVE.
TNTandCHOCOLATE
The World is really a mad crazy place isn't it ? So many lack so badly self love and self esteem while others think their belly buttons are the center of the Universe. The really crazy thing is when we start really analizing things and taking a closer look: we are all one, so if I harm someone, I will only be harming myself. Yesterday I was on the phone with my dearest friend who is going through a massive crisis: the ex hubby is coming Monday to take her furniture, electric appliances and that includes the furniture inside his own daughters bedroom ! So, from next week onwards until Christmas my friend and her 7 year old daughter will be sleeping on the floor of the house. Oh wait, the best part of all is, he actually does not need the furniture for anything really, he is only taking it away because his parents gave it to my friend. Well... you can see how far b!tchiness can go...
berangere · 80-89, F
I can, I had such a "man" in my life for seven years,they do mean spirited things simply because they can!
climber1
Sorry that you had to be exposed to such a terrible situation.
avatarunknown
Ashamed to say some of these apply to me.
Sometimes.
I'm a work in progress.
climber1
Today is the first day of the rest of our lives. As before I think we all should be working harder at improving the way we deal with others.
I will if you will :)
avatarunknown
It's a deal.
climber1
Good! I have started :)
Kathieredart
That was a great list, b. Ummmm..... Ok, I gamble a bit with money.... But only what I can afford to lose. Lol.
climber1
Thanks for posting.
Good to remind ourselves of this from time to time.
berangere · 80-89, F
And to be able to recognise them!
papri
Oh my! Number 9 applies to me :(
berangere · 80-89, F
And to me!
TimelessEyes
Very good!

 
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