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I Am a Victim of Emotional Abuse

I really need someone to talk to my abusive ex is trying to talk to me again and break me down. Sigh. He had choked me, threw me across his living room, threatened me, kicked me, called me all kindsa names. I hate him . Im struggling. Thanku for reading this post. :)
Fernie · F
what are you struggling with? Whether or not to ALLOW him back into your life to continue to abuse you? You think he's a different person who will respect and love you now? Men who behave that way have NO clue what love is or means. He'll keep doing it. Especially if you take him back. That is a clear sign that you have very low self esteem and self worth. The exact type of woman males like him prey on. You have 2 choices. Don't get back into that world just so you aren't alone. You will still be alone...all alone with an abusive jerk.
PTCdresser57 · 61-69, M
Do not go there again...ignore him! He will abuse you again if you go back with him.
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Fernie · F
Nope
Emotional abuse? You are a victim of domestic violence. He will NOT change, in fact he will say and do things to make you believe he changed but he will AlLWAYS go back and do the same stuff to you. Be strong, get help and do not go back to him.
SW-User
Dont go to him!
WoodyAq · M
You deserve much better. Avoid him like the plague. If he persists, there are services that will help you deal with him ... use them.
amnotthattired · 31-35, F
Thanku extremely!
Do not ever entertain the idea of a jerk like that to re-enter your life.
firefall · 61-69, M
Don't let him, block him out. Those guys just don't change - even when they want to, their inner demons will keep pushing them into abusing you. Maybe talk to a Womans Refuge or a Battered Womans shelter - you may not need to relocate, but they will generally be happy to give you advice on the situation.
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amnotthattired · 31-35, F
@Ear4u2: huh?
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amnotthattired · 31-35, F
That doesnt make any sense .

 
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